My Phoebe had passed away...

[kaycountrygal]

I am so sorry your beloved Phoebe passed away. I understand your pain and sadness at her loss. I am sorry her end was not a calm one but try to remember that she is no longer in pain. I am sure you have many great wonderful memories of good times with her. She doesnt blame you for anything I am sure. Maybe one day you will open your heart to another cat, not to replace Phoebe, but to have a cat to love. I know Phoebe will always be in your heart. I nearly forgot; I went to COTD and read about Phoebe and I recall reading about her when she was COTD. She was very pretty. Take care, Kay in NC USA

[mon]

You did the right thing. That was only a small moment in time and what you need to remember is the beautiful moments you shared together. They far outweigh the bad,yes? Of course they do sweetheart. All prayers and love for you and yours,you did the right thing. Been there,done that and there is not much that seems worse at the time. Be strong,Peace and love

[mon]

I also think another cat is in order pronto! There is no wayI could get over the loss of my cat so finding another cat to love was a great way to heal and the cat was in heaven knowing I had way more love to give. Consider it. Just keep your heart open please

[Anikaca77]

I'm so sorry to hear about your Phoebe.

It's never easy, my prays are with you.

melissa

[Rhonda]

You did the right thing. That was only a small moment in time and what you need to remember is the beautiful moments you shared together. They far outweigh the bad,yes? Of course they do sweetheart. All prayers and love for you and yours,you did the right thing. Been there,done that and there is not much that seems worse at the time. Be strong,Peace and love

Thank you, thank you for you understanding and just plain common-sense you know sometimes you just need to have someone say what needs to be said. You've been through this sadness to so you do understand how it feels.
Thank for the loving support.

[Rhonda]

I am so sorry your beloved Phoebe passed away. I understand your pain and sadness at her loss. I am sorry her end was not a calm one but try to remember that she is no longer in pain. I am sure you have many great wonderful memories of good times with her. She doesnt blame you for anything I am sure. Maybe one day you will open your heart to another cat, not to replace Phoebe, but to have a cat to love. I know Phoebe will always be in your heart. I nearly forgot; I went to COTD and read about Phoebe and I recall reading about her when she was COTD. She was very pretty. Take care, Kay in NC USA

Thank you for your lovely words of kindness and I really wish with all my heart that she doesn't blame me. I will eventually hope to adopt or have them adopt me but maybe a little later. Yes we did have happy times and she certainly could be a handful with such a spirited disposition but that's what I loved about her, and thank you we thought she was a pretty girl too. All the best to you.