September 20th, 2010... the day my world crumbled apart..

[anna_66]

Isabel, what a terrible tragedy for you and your family. I can read the heartbreak in your posts
I have a friend that's going through something very similar and lost her husband. She has twins. It's been hard for her but with family & friends she's getting through it and I know you will too.
Please know that I'm here for you if you need to talk. Call me any time.

Stay strong

Many (((HUGS)))
Anna

[caseysmom]

Isabel, here in the states if something like this happens the kids get social security until they are 18, is there anything like that in Mexico?

Please eat, you and the baby need the nourishment. I am sure your parents don't mind you being there, especially during this time, give yourself time to mourn and worry about the rest of the stuff later.

[Kfamr]

Hugs to you and the kids, I cant even imagine.

[kitten645]

I am so very sorry. Can you set up a fund at a bank we might be able to contribute to? Take advantage of the press to ask for donations to help you out. I think blogging/journaling is a help for many. Please take care of yourself for your kids. Loving thoughts to you and your family.

[Kater]

I have no words....what a horrible tragedy. Please know that I am holding you and your sweet family in my prayers. Please take care of yourself and don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it.

[Karen]

Isabel, you are still in our thoughts and prayers, remember you and your little boy and girl-to-be are loved, so you need to take care of yourself, okay?

[Lilith Cherry]

Still sending loving thoughts and thinking of you,Isabel. Let us know if we can help in anyway at all

[k9krazee]

Isabel, I am just now seeing this. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. You and your family will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers. Your blog is a very touching and sweet idea ((((hugs)))))

[K9karen]

Sweet Isabelle, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you're going through. I wish I could be there to comfort you in whatever way I can. My prayers are with you and your family.

[Vermontcat]

Isabel, I am so sorry that I haven't seen this thread until now. I have had a busy week and didn't have time to log in to Pet Talk until now.
I am shocked and it's really hard to find the right words, just know that you have a lot of people here at Pet Talk who care about you and are willing to help you with whatever you need.
I am so sorry that you lost your husband so suddenly, it is such a tragedy.
Sending hugs to you and your family, Milly & Izzy send comforting purrs.

[jennielynn1970]

Oh Isabel... I'm so sorry to be reading this. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I hope they get the guys who did this.

[gini]

Isabel, just sending you some prayers and hugs. You will not be forgotten on this site - we are all here for you.

[lvpets2002]

Isabel me & the furr purr babies are sending lots more Prayers & Huggss.. You will always be in my Heart & Thoughts.. The Blog you wrote to your Dear Husband was so Touching & such a Great Tribute to Him.. God Bless You & the Babies..

[Husky_mom]

THANK YOU!!.. it´s really great to have people like you in my life.. even virtually..

the pain is a bit more manageable.. but I think it´s because I´ve been focusing in getting things that need be done done and all that... but it still hurts.. badly...

I think I´ve found the school for my kid.. just need to consult with the hubs.. to see if it´s right..

I did went to the doctor last friday.. everything is fine with me and baby... she´s growing really nicely.. about a week ahead.. hope she doesn´t grows too much while still inside..

I´ve been eating.. don´t worry.. it´s just that sometimes I feel so blah about it..

as someone mentioned to me on PM.. you´re right, it really doesn´t seem right or fair to keep going... I don´t wanna move on... but there are thing that need me to...

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now a lil vent....

I read somewhere they were associating my husband with certain people he had NOTHING to do with.. absolutely nothing.. and saying he was like their protegee or something.. anything FAR from that.. it made me so mad..as a matter of fact that´s one of the reasons we left in the first place.. tehy could not give him his allowed 6 months license while other people way way below him had over a year in license... anyway he moved onto better things..

antother thing.. is that in some news, someone posted "I hope they catch the ones that did this and release them.. so that his family suffers what many suffer with his "system""... WTF??!!.. thank you for your good thoughts.. and besides it was NOT HIS system.. he just worked for it.. yeah it has it´s flaws but it´s not his fault nor ours for them to wish us that suffering..

so not worth it, but it made my blood boil

vent over...
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thank you for being here ((hugs back))

[carole]

Dearest Isabel, i gasped in horror when i read your post, i just cannot believe it, this is so sad, so awful that this could happen to such a sweet couple as yourselves, you are such a brave young woman to come here and tell us, just know you are amongst people who love you and care and will be here to help you in anyway possible.

To read that nonsense regarding your husband must be so hurtful, just know it is not true and they are not worth it, that is just terrible to put you through anymore pain than you are already in.

As i go about my daily chores, i am thinking of you, and hoping that your heart will heal in time and that you will have the strength to get through this with the love and help of family, friends and PT friends here, my heart goes out to you at this incredibly difficult, sad and painful time,much love to you and your beautiful children, please take care of yourself,GIANT HUGS.