I'm getting my stuff - DONE!!!!

**Queen of Poop** · 08-06-2010, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by Alysser

Wait, I'm confused. He said he wants to "be rid of you.." but he keeps playing this bullcrap game? Ugh. I don't think he gets that he is screwing himself over royally by being a jerk and playing these games with you and your things. Can he actually get in trouble for lying to you about these things or lying about the code. I just don't get what his problem is.

"Here, I gives you your stuff"

Thanks Mikey! You are such an adorable dogger!!! KISSES for you!!

His kind likes to be in control. I was intimidated for years into doing what he wanted. I'm not doing that any more, I wasn't brainwashed enough I guess, so this was basically the last bit of control he had over me, my stuff. That's gone now. So really, there should be nothing else he can do to hurt me ever again. He's a horrible person and I don't wish him on anyone.

But it's over now!! It's all over now. Well, almost. On October 12 we will be officially divorced. The settlement agreement is mostly in place. The light at the end of the tunnel is getting closer and I'm pretty sure it's not a train any more!

**Catty1** · 08-07-2010, 10:29 AM

Just the train that's a ride to freedom! YAAY!

**Queen of Poop** · 08-08-2010, 12:59 PM

It took Anne and I 4 hours yesterday to organize it all. Today I spent 2 hours going thru the boxes of my clothes and a few dining room boxes. I came home with 4 green garbage bags of my clothes - easier to carry. I've put alot of clothes into plastic bins that can stay in storage for now. So now I have SHOES and CLOTHES!!! Woo hoo. I'm exhausted but couldn't be happier.

**Karen** · 08-08-2010, 01:00 PM

Congratulations! Progress is good!

**Taz_Zoee** · 08-08-2010, 01:12 PM

Woo Hoo!! Glad you are getting this all handled, finally. Once this is done and the divorce is final you can move forward and never look back. I'm so sorry that you've had to go through all of this. But good for you for being strong and getting out of it.