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  1. #16
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    I don't know where some of you work. I use my cell phone all the time to both recieve and place calls to other attorneys, the court, my friends, my co-workers, etc. My sister works in a bank, and we call each other, no issue. Frankly, there is such a blend in many people's lives between work time and non work time that if anyone ever said 'don't use your cell phone during business hours', I would laugh. I use my cell phone during business hours, to make and receive business calls. I use my desk phone to make and receive personal calls. It is a phone, a way to get in touch with me. I can easily program people's numbers into my cell phone, I can't do that with work.

    Just last week, I used my cell phone, while sitting at my desk, to call another attorney on HIS cell phone, while he was sitting at his desk. Course, during the call, both of us had our office phone ring. LOL.

    BUT, having said that, I don't have an offensive message on my VM, and do have certain ring tones programmed for certain people. None of them contain any vulgarity.

    I would just say to her, "Did you know that every time your phone rings I hear the "F" word? Probably not very office appropriate."

    That is kind of the beginning and end of it, IMO. You aren't her boss, she isn't an employee, and could you possibly sever a relationship that the company might not love you for?

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    We can use our cell phones at work, but with discretion. We're big boys and girls, after all! Seriously, though, part of the "discretion" includes tasteful ring tones or, better, phone on silent mode.
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    I have the BEST ring tone on my phone.

    "Hi, this is John. I'm with my wife right now.
    So if you leave your name and number,
    I'll get back to you as soon as I'm finished."

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    I hope you get this resolved, Elyse. I'm sorry this person doesn't have the decency to make sure this is never heard in public.

    I know the F word is used by so many people these days but not everyone wants to listen to it.


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    Quote Originally Posted by wombat2u2004 View Post
    I have the BEST ring tone on my phone.

    "Hi, this is John. I'm with my wife right now.
    So if you leave your name and number,
    I'll get back to you as soon as I'm finished."
    Is that on your work phone, Wom?
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    That is definitely unprofessional and shows no respect for those forced to listen. If your office has staff meetings, like many do, maybe you could ask that it be brought up anonymously, maybe the supervisor or head of your department could make a general statement like "There have been complaints about....." Nobody should have to listen to trash like that! I do hope something will be done about it!
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    Quote Originally Posted by phesina View Post
    Is that on your work phone, Wom?
    Naw. It was on my home phone for a day.
    My wife found out about it, and I was in trouble for the next week...

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    My wife found out about it, and I was in trouble for the next week...
    Well, you had to change it then...likely you weren't "with" for quite some time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    Well, you had to change it then...likely you weren't "with" for quite some time.
    True !!! The atmosphere was so DRY (so to speak) for a while, I thought I was in the Sahara Desert.

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    Thank you, everyone!

    Here's what I'm going to do. She's back in the office tomorrow. Last Monday the Who was her new ring tone, so I'd like to wait and see if she has a new one tomorrow or not. If it's still the Who, I'm going to mention it casually to our manager.
    Last edited by cassiesmom; 08-08-2010 at 07:10 PM.
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    Update. She was out of the office (working from home) for two weeks, just returned yesterday, and the Who is gone. I heard her tell the department director that sometime during the two weeks she realized what it said and was surprised that no one had pointed it out to her. It was installed on her phone as a prank. There is a little computer-generated melody on her phone now. I never did say anything. I'm just glad it's gone.
    Praying for peace in the Middle East, Ukraine, and around the world.

    I've been Boo'd ... right off the stage!

    Aaahh, I have been defrosted! Thank you, Bonny and Asiel!
    Brrrr, I've been Frosted! Thank you, Asiel and Pomtzu!


    "That's the power of kittens (and puppies too, of course): They can reduce us to quivering masses of Jell-O in about two seconds flat and make us like it. Good thing they don't have opposable thumbs or they'd surely have taken over the world by now." -- Paul Lukas

    "We consume our tomorrows fretting about our yesterdays." -- Persius, first century Roman poet

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    Hmm, I would tell her it's innapropriate,

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    Oh it's gone. Good.

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