I'm getting my stuff - DONE!!!!

[pomtzu]

Gayle - what does he hope to accomplish by being an ass about everything? Does he think you'll back down and play dead? Why would he even want your things - other than to say he can do what he pleases and is more powerful than you. Is it an ego and power trip for him??? I just don't "get" guys like this! If he wants to be rid of you so damn bad, you'd think he would want you to get your things and get out of his life. Sounds like he still wants you under his thumb and to control you. Geeze.........

[NicoleLJ]

so sorry you are going through this. Hopefully your stuff is ok but if your ex is anything like mine then it could be wishful thinking.

[Queen of Poop]

Gayle - what does he hope to accomplish by being an ass about everything? Does he think you'll back down and play dead? Why would he even want your things - other than to say he can do what he pleases and is more powerful than you. Is it an ego and power trip for him??? I just don't "get" guys like this! If he wants to be rid of you so damn bad, you'd think he would want you to get your things and get out of his life. Sounds like he still wants you under his thumb and to control you. Geeze.........

Your last words are absolutely right on the money, sadly.

[Queen of Poop]

So my friend Anne and I went and found the place. Tried the code I was provided, no luck. Will call tomorrow and find out what the heck!! Anne is unavailable tomorrow as its her bday, so unless I can find someone else (unlikely) I will go again on Friday with Anne when she is available. So more waiting.

[rosethecopycat]

So my friend Anne and I went and found the place. Tried the code I was provided, no luck. Will call tomorrow and find out what the heck!! Anne is unavailable tomorrow as its her bday, so unless I can find someone else (unlikely) I will go again on Friday with Anne when she is available. So more waiting.

I hope you get your results come Friday, it's gone on long enough. I'm sorry he's making it so difficult for you.
Thinking of you.

[Miranda_Rae]

YAY!!!! i am glad that you are getting your stuff, and i am glad that you are not going alone. In my opinion hes a control freak and since he cant have you as his wife, hes trying other ways to control you, but kudos to you for standing up for yourself and saying enough! Good luck. Keep us posted.

[Catty1]

That man is one sick puppy. This is almost over for you, Gayle - and you will come out just fine!

[Queen of Poop]

I saw my stuff. I saw my stuff!!!!!!!!!!!!

Looks kind of like he went thru the house room by room and piled up all my stuff in storage. But I suspect that it was only done RECENTLY. As my 5 house plants were in storage, placed very near the back. I had to climb over stuff to get to them, but they're in my place now, they've had a much needed drink and I hope they recover.

Tomorrow Anne and I will try to organize it all and soon I will hire movers to move it into my storage locker where he will no longer have access.

I did also bring home with me the stuffed dog I had made at Build A Bear that is a Border Collie I had named Sasha. Amazing how something so small can make you feel so good.

[wombat2u2004]

Gayle - what does he hope to accomplish by being an ass about everything? Does he think you'll back down and play dead? Why would he even want your things - other than to say he can do what he pleases and is more powerful than you. Is it an ego and power trip for him??? I just don't "get" guys like this! If he wants to be rid of you so damn bad, you'd think he would want you to get your things and get out of his life. Sounds like he still wants you under his thumb and to control you. Geeze.........

My take on this, is that he wants punish and hurt Gayle.
Some guys are like that....if they can't have what they want, then they lay waste to it.