What would you do? Updated, more information

**carole** · 07-29-2010, 12:23 AM

oh my gosh i am so very sorry that you are having to deal with this traumatic decision after the very sad loss of you mother, as if that is not enough for you all to deal with, thank you for taking the time here to explain all to us, i really feel for you so much and i can only say i trust you will do what is the best thing for the kitties, knowing how much your mother loved them,and you loved your mother ensures only the best will be done for them , i wish you all the best and i certainly understand what a difficult decision you have ahead of you, HUGS.

**Laura's Babies** · 07-29-2010, 07:24 AM

Thank you Donnis for posting the correct story about your Mom's fur kids.. Like I told you, those meds I am on have really screwed up my head and whole system. One more day and I am through with those and hopefully that will clear up. I am SO looking forwards to that appointment with your ENT today! I will change the thread to read "updated" so maybe others will read your post.

**Medusa** · 07-29-2010, 08:22 AM

Seeing how hard and how much my Boo has grieved since his Pidge passed away, I can't imagine separating these two cats if they're so close. Their health may not be the best but if it's manageable, I can't see having either one PTS. There are people who will take in only elderly cats to give them a good life in their last days. If I ever take in more cats, that's what I'll do instead of always taking in special needs cats. I would explain the situation as briefly but as completely as possible in a plea to rescue agencies and see if it doesn't touch the heart of someone who is willing to open their home to them. This is so sad and I'm so sorry that you're going through this. The best of all good things are due you.

**Anikaca77** · 07-29-2010, 08:56 AM

I wish I could help out but I have a full house. I will however post this on a site and hope that maybe someone would be willing to take these 2 in.

I'm sorry to her about your mom passing and your kitty. It's never easy, as they say just take one day at a time and it usually gets easier, it takes a long time.

My thoughts and prays are with you,
Melissa

**Catty1** · 07-29-2010, 11:59 AM

Donnis, thank you for your post. How devastating to lose your furbaby, and then your Mom - I can barely imagine it, and for you all to keep the kitties first and foremost is a tribute to your great heart in spite of grief.

Did the kitties have a vet? Would it be possible to contact the vet and see what they think? They may even know of a home. (Not a bad idea to contact all vets in the area).

Prayers and peace to you and your family, and I wish you all the luck with those dear cats.

**Pinot's Mom** · 07-29-2010, 12:11 PM

Donnis, thank you for your update post. I know you and your family are grieving and I'm sorry for your losses. My heart goes out to you.

As I said to Laura, I know there are organizations to specialize in this issue. I looked on line, and all references pointed to contacting your local SPCA. Please do so - they may be able to help. Prayers for all of you.