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    Carole,

    it often does not fix the problem, is traumatic for the cat, a big expense, with no guarantee's.
    There is your answer. I always ask myself when a situation arises what guarantees there are and what quality of life will my cat have with no teeth. If there are no guarantees and it will only cause my cats pain and stress, then I know I have my answer.

    You and Ellie Mae will be in my thoughts and prayers. Know that whatever you decide will be the right decision for you both.

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    I do not have this experience, and I won't suggest anything, but I know that some people have done extraction of all teeth, here on PT and elsewhere, and kitties seem happy and healthy, after recovery and adaptation. I have never that it could fail. I am sure more advice will come.

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    I'm of the school of thought that you should trust your instincts, Carole. If you feel that she may go through this for nothing, that there probably will be no improvement, then I'd probably not do it. However, I do know that Jen Luckenbach has had success w/having all teeth extracted in some of her cats and w/good success, too. Perhaps PM her and she can give you more info. Whatever you decide, we know that it'll be the right decision b/c I really think that there is no wrong decision here. You're looking out for Ellie-Mae's best interests and wanting to cause her the least amount of pain as possible. Keep the faythe, my friend.
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    Carole, I don't have this experience, either. My tendency is also to listen to your gut feeling. Only you and Ellie Mae are there, and you are the only one who can truly tell the situation to make the decision. I will not give my instinct, as it would serve no purpose. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you, and I'll support whole heartedly any decision you make.
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    Also - ask the vet how this has worked on other cats in the same situation as Ellie Mae.

    Prayers for you and that beautiful girl.
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    I aggree & would for sure ask.. Lots Prayers & Huggss from TX..
    Quote Originally Posted by Catty1 View Post
    Also - ask the vet how this has worked on other cats in the same situation as Ellie Mae.

    Prayers for you and that beautiful girl.

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    Thank you everyone, i really appreciate the input so much, the thing is i know cats can do very well despite having no teeth, that is not the problem here, the problem is having the procedure is high risk for her, also she may well just have the same problem after it all, that is where my huge dilemma is.

    I trust my vet completely , 100 per cent, however he is also going by research on the internet, he has not said that he has done this before for this problem, so we are treading in to the unknown.

    I really am caught between a rock and hard place, because her life now is up and down,she has good weeks and bad and this is a very painful condition, and we are treating it the only way we can, with constant steroids,which of course have long term side effects, her injections,however there is no doubt that she does suffer, and that concerns me greatly, however other than this she leads a good life, she seems content enough except when she is having bad flare ups.

    It really is a very cruel disease IMO.

    The internet tells me there has only been 30 per cent of cats that have improved, that really is not very high,and does not give me much faith.

    The trauma for her is the whole operation, after that i am sure she would be ok,but again not necessarily cured or even any better,it would seem awful to put her through so much with added risk, if this turned out to be the case.

    So you see i just have no idea what to do, i will talk it over more with my vet when he gets back from the Uk, there is no urgency at this stage, we do have time on our sides, so that is something.

    At the moment i am steering towards not having it done, i just don't like the odds or the risks ,but then i have to wonder how long Ellie can survive like this, everything i read say's extraction is the very last resort, there are other medications out there ,but they have not been trialed enough, and i am not making her a guinea pig.

    For my vet to suggest it though, he must be thinking we are at the last resort stage, he initially was not for it either, but after doing some research he told me last night that he thought it might well be the way to go for her.

    I have to tell you as we were leaving a couple arrived with the big dog a rottweiler (sp) poor baby could not walk, i thought she had been injured, but he said no she is old and i think it is her time, i patted her and she looked up at me with such a sweet look on her face, i could not hold my tears back, not in front of her owners though,she was so beautiful, and i felt so sad for her and her owners, obviously a well loved and looked after pet, i was thinking about her quite a bit during the night, so if she went to the RB, i hope she went peacefully.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinot's Mom View Post
    Carole, I don't have this experience, either. My tendency is also to listen to your gut feeling. Only you and Ellie Mae are there, and you are the only one who can truly tell the situation to make the decision. I will not give my instinct, as it would serve no purpose. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you, and I'll support whole heartedly any decision you make.
    I agree as well. My prays and thoughts are with you and Ellie-Mae.

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    No experience here with extracting teeth on purpose but a bit with a kitty with no teeth....
    Percy, our family cat when I was a child, must have had gingivitis or some other gum disease - all her teeth fell out, one by one. I know she lived at least 4 years with no teeth. She was an outdoor kitty and was quite the hunter. Having no teeth never even slowed her down...I remember one morning she stood howling at the back door with a huge dead gopher at her feet...she always brought her conquests home so we could ooh and aah and tell her what a good kitty she was. LOL
    Percy lived to be almost 17 which is pretty dang good for an outdoor kitty.

    My point is she seemed so much happier after all her teeth were gone. I know any procedure is stressful for kitties but they do have much better pain meds for cats these days......
    Paws crossed here for you and Ellie-Mae.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by Medusa View Post
    I'm of the school of thought that you should trust your instincts, Carole. If you feel that she may go through this for nothing, that there probably will be no improvement, then I'd probably not do it. However, I do know that Jen Luckenbach has had success w/having all teeth extracted in some of her cats and w/good success, too. Perhaps PM her and she can give you more info. Whatever you decide, we know that it'll be the right decision b/c I really think that there is no wrong decision here. You're looking out for Ellie-Mae's best interests and wanting to cause her the least amount of pain as possible. Keep the faythe, my friend.
    I totaly agree. Whatever you decide to do I'll support you. Lots of prayers and positive thoughts are being sent her way. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

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    I have no experience either and I also say follow what your gut says.

    (Didn't catmandu also have one that had to have all their teeth pulled?)

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