Deleted my thread

[lvpets2002]

I am so saddened by this.. Yes I will admitt her wording was all wrong = But she meant no harm.. She is just a Youngen with lack of wording knowledge.. Jessie just wanted everyone to have prayers about her baby too.. **Now I Wish For All To Read Post #73 that I wrote..**

In any case the thread about Cam getting spayed has been deleted by the poster.

[Husky_mom]

this kind of amuses me.. lol..

sorry if you feel your angst amuses me (not directed towards ANYONE in particular).. but every now and then someone will be offended by something.. we can´t go by deleting threads/posts etc or we will end with an empty forum... yeah we can disagree on topics, think some "wordings" are harsh, but we can still see the big picture... at least I know I can.. and I´m one that has used some "attention getter" titles.. and some might be taken not so good...

another thing is calling someone names.. making disrespectful comments or adjectives.. THAT should not be tolerated.. well.. it could but only with a great sense of humor which sometimes it just can´t be done..

I do think, and it´s nothing wrong about it, to bring on topic other topics from same original poster (this or whichever other thread) as IMO they ALL relate to the same person and one could say "hey on this thread you said this, but on this other one.."... another topic from another person could be dragged in IF it was about same issue .. not in this case.. where some rude comments were reffered to then added someone elses harsh descriptions.. although quite similar they are still not the same..

if we relate every bad comment, harsh wording, bad spelling, etc.. then we would have brought in tons of the threads here...

ES was and is entitled to her opinions and made a good point, but as I saw it ,Karen just reminded her of not bringing another topic into this thread.. but that it would be addressed properly.. even if she seemed to "bless" the title.. which I more think tolerated.. as I did.. I didn´t felt offended, sure it was a bit odd.. maybe too much for some others.. which is why I understand ES´s concern..

the thing here is that the OP has several times made rude comments, denigrating people, etc.. and all those "topics" arose here

no one is or needs to be "attacked"...we all just need our reins pulled sometimes.. sometimes it goes in PM´s sometimes it slips and goes into threads.. maybe ES´s situation is more noticeable as many have been open to everyone´s eyes.. but I bet I´m sure more like that have been done in private (to other people I meant)...

I´m sorry ES if you feel that no one has your back.. I for one consider myself a supporter, you certainly make some good points sometimes, sometimes you don´t, just like everyone else (not saying this was one.. was a good point but pertained or requiered either another thread or PM´s).. we can´t all think alike all the time... but don´t feel ganged up on.. I just thought clearing it up a bit in my words.. i don´t like seeing people taking sides..

[RICHARD]

this kind of amuses me.. lol..

That's why we are related.....

[Husky_mom]

I have done and posted stupid things, been run thru the wringer for some, edited and reminded that my behavior wasn't up to snuff for the site.

That said?

It didn't keep me from having fun or thinking of ways to sneak in a double entendre, joke or resorting to the lowest common denominator to get a laugh.


I think that I have offended everyone on this site at least once, twice and have some people into the double digits. I look at that and really measure that person by the way they react to me on other threads.

I have been offended by posts/threads in the past and somehow I have survived this long.

That's why we are related.....

no doubt about it, mi hermano

[Bonny]

IVpets2002, I just looked in the mirror & it broke to pieces. Now I am going to have 7 years bad luck. I should of never read your post.

Now that is a decision I made to do read IVpets post & look what happened. If I would of ignored it like other posts on here I would not now end up having 7 years of bad luck.

[lvpets2002]

Bonny I am sorry the mirror broke.. But I see the point I was getting at was made..

IVpets2002, I just looked in the mirror & it broke to pieces. Now I am going to have 7 years bad luck. I should of never read your post.

Now that is a decision I made to do read IVpets post & look what happened. If I would of ignored it like other posts on here I would not now end up having 7 years of bad luck.

[lizbud]

Well, well, all this going on & I was outside cutting weeds all afternoon.


At least the air here got cleared a little bit & that's always helpful. Right?

[Cataholic]

I am so saddened by this.. Yes I will admitt her wording was all wrong = But she meant no harm.. She is just a Youngen with lack of wording knowledge.. Jessie just wanted everyone to have prayers about her baby too.. **Now I Wish For All To Read Post #73 that I wrote..**

I believe you are mistaken. According to Jess, she didn't misuse a word. She posted it as she thought it was a humorous/funny way to describe it. She knew what she was posting. Frankly, from your description of Jess, you seem to think she is an imbecile with no command of the english language. She is far from either. She simply used a phrase many thought tasteless. Not a death sentance, not a punishable offense...simply a poor choice of words, that even you acknowledge.

I believe I mentioned this before to you, that YOU don't see something worth posting about is fine. Don't post. That doesn't mean others have the same opinion. This "hold hands and sing along" thing is nice, in theory, I suppose. But, not everyone feels like this.

I haven't seen anyone make a claim of perfection on here. I don't think any of this is about making genuine mistakes, or mispeaking. If you think that, then I don't think you did read the original thread (I am not referring to Jess's). I can never remember my quotes and the authors of them. Certainly, I do not claim this as mine. But, someone famous said something along the lines of, "he who stands for nothing, falls for everything". I think it is appropriate here.

No one needs to look in the mirror, no one needs to feel ganged up on, there are no secret societies (that I am aware of). This board is comprised of a group of people with vast and varied degree of experiences. There are many opinions, some people are comfortable expressing their's, and some are not. Some people avoid conflict, some are conflict driven. (I probably fall in the latter category, in case any one wonders.)

It is irksome to have anyone (not just the government) attempt to quiet those that dissent, or don't share the majority opinion. I feel irked when someone tells me I shouldn't have/share opinions on a public board.

[Taz_Zoee]

I'm all for sharing opinions. It's just the way they are delivered or how others receive them that appears to be the problem starter.
It will never be all sun shiney and perfect on here. I've learned to accept that fact. I'm one that tends to avoid conflict.

[RICHARD]

This "hold hands and sing along" thing is nice, in theory, I suppose.

Let's give it a try.....wipe you hands on your pant legs, everyone hold hands and....

Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya;
Kum bay ya, the Lord, kum bay ya;
Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.
Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya;
Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya;
Kum bay ya, my Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.

Someone's laughing, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's laughing, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's laughing, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.
Hear me crying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Hear me crying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Hear me crying, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.

Someone's crying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's crying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's crying, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.
Hear me singing, Lord, kum bay ya;
Hear me singing, Lord, kum bay ya;
Hear me singing, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.

Someone's praying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's praying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's praying, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.
Hear me praying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Hear me praying, Lord, kum bay ya;
Hear me praying, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.

Someone's singing, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's singing, Lord, kum bay ya;
Someone's singing, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.
Oh, I need you, Lord, kum bay ya;
Oh, I need you, Lord, kum bay ya;
Oh, I need you, Lord, kum bay ya,
O Lord, kum bay ya.



I feel better already, It didn't hurt and some you can't sing.

[Cataholic]

I never knew the words to that song. Thanks!

[RICHARD]

See, ya feel better already!

All we need is a campfire, chocolate bars, marshmallows and graham crackers.



Rock on.

[Asiel]

What I found tasteless was that quote was unintentionally attributed to you.

I didn't understand how that had happened myself but thanks.

[Asiel]

My sincere apologies if I left the impression that you, Asiel, were the author of that thread. You most certainly were not.

Although I believe "ripping guts out" - cat, dog, bird, cow, deer...whatever - is an ugly image. More than a wee bit.

Thank you for having the courage to admit the mistake, I have no idea how my post got twisted up like that but I'm glad everyone realizes it wasn't my post.

[Cataholic]

Those are the 4th of July plans this weekend, for sure! S'mores all around.

Here's the thing...I don't get mad or upset or angry or anything about stuff on here. If I get irked at all, it is momentary. I can post passionately without being emotionally vested in something. I do it day in and day out, professionally. I actually laughed out loud recently when someone accused me of being angry cause of what I posted.

I get mad, angry, upset over the injustices done to animals, the emails that flood my inbox, the dog that won't go potty in front of me cause he was apparently beat, the stray cats running around my sister's house, the dead animals, and of course, all the human attrocities, too. The 3 year old that was touched by the 14 year old, who then got slapped by an adult, who got charged with assualt. THAT stuff gets me.