Well so far no response and i see she is online, so i am figuring she won't pm me, but i am not giving up yet, just hoping she gets around to it, but yeah she was very keen to accept my help when i was going to send her the money, now nothing, but i could be wrong, and i hope so, otherwise this kitty is not going to be helped and there is nothing i can do about it.

Honestly i wish i could do more in this world Donna, but i try when i can, and you know you guys are the people who made me this way, and i thank each and every one of you for opening my eyes and making me want to do something,it is so easy just to say it is someone else's responsibility, yeah of course it is her's i know ,but if helping cover the costs makes her go ahead with the spaying, well that is what matters here, it is one kitty that won't continue adding to the over -population problem,she was considering giving the mama cat away, i was horrified and asked her why, she said because she was peeing everywhere, so i then gave her some advice that about UTI'S stress etc, which most of it i have learned from being here on PT, then she said she was not going to , was just having a hard day, well i sure hope so.
well one can only but try can't we? fingers and paws crossed i hear from her.