You did a good thing, Carole. To guarantee that the kitties get fixed, I'd send the check to the vet, not to her. You don't know her and she could spend it on anything she wants and not spend it on what it was intended for.
Just my take on things. That other idiot that was telling you to shut up?? Tell them to mine their own business. Better yet, it's not worth your time, air or space in your head.
You are a saint, girl. There should be more people like you out there.
Hugs,
Donna
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