What do you think...Not pet related

[happylabs]

Lots of people write books. Even fewer get them published, and the percentage that actually get marketing and distribution is even smaller. I'd not worry about it.

Ohhh...I forgot to mention...she has published several of these postcard books in my area. Books that have historical pictures and postcards in them. She used to work for a publishing company in Connecticut before she left her kids and moved to Pennsylvania to be with the "love of her life".

[Cataholic]

It is tacky. It is embarrassing to both your ex-husband and her. I am curious. What do your children think of this?

[carole]

I agree it is indeed very tacky, and rubbing salt in your wounds, i know you are over it now and i am happy to hear that, but as if you need it all dragged up again, and so embarrassing for your children, not much you can do i suppose,but hey i love Richards idea, go Richard.

[Twisterdog]

I'd take the high road and ignore the whole thing, unless it proves to be grossly inaccurate and a total character assasination.

Your kids are old enough to know which way the wind blows.

[Marigold2]

Even thought time has passed and you and the kids have moved on I can certaintly understand this upsetting you. If if were me I would try and just forget it and be happy. Maybe she needs to write for self therapy, maybe she is writing to justify what happened, perhaps she is unhappy and is trying to convince herself and the world that she is happy.
I would go to the store and buy myself something pretty and live my life being happy without the man who cheated.
Best of luck to you, may happiness be yours.

[Asiel]

If this wasn't so tactless and lacking in good sense I think I would choke laughing. Let her write the book and if she publishes it under non fiction take it to a lawyer after you read and outline what you consider tasteless and invasion of your private life. If fiction, start working on a rebuttal.

[happylabs]

Even thought time has passed and you and the kids have moved on I can certaintly understand this upsetting you. If if were me I would try and just forget it and be happy. Maybe she needs to write for self therapy, maybe she is writing to justify what happened, perhaps she is unhappy and is trying to convince herself and the world that she is happy.
I would go to the store and buy myself something pretty and live my life being happy without the man who cheated.
Best of luck to you, may happiness be yours.

That is a very good point! I never thought of it that way. Yes, I have moved on. The more I thought about it today the more I realized it really does not affect my life at all now. I am happy and I have a good life with my kitties who LOVE me very much!

Thanks everyone. I appreciate all of the sincere and thoughtful suggestions and remarks.

[K9karen]

I love your attitude. Blessings on you for being happy and obviously being a great mom with well adjusted kids. I've never been married (almost) but have been in a long term relationship. I
always tell John that if he finds someone better than me, go for it. See ya. Not that I don't love him, but I guess I'm weird. I let things pass and never hold grudges. I have no regrets. There's a word for this lady who wrote the book but I can't put in on here But it is what is is. I think I adore you. You're a CLASS ACT!