Quote Originally Posted by rosethecopycat View Post
Hi!

Thanks for the info. I know Canada may be different than in the States.
How, may I ask, did your boyfriend saddle you with debt, if you were not legally bound to him? That is scary, and I'm sorry you got caught in that mess.
He took my CC's & expanded them to 10k each (you can do it online.. apparently... secure eh?) He then spent is all on his Small Craft Pilot licence. I knew about some of it, just not all of it... He knew things were going to end, so he used all my CC's for everything (for him)... He is a violent man & there was NO WAY IN HECK I was gonna fight him for anything... I left with what I could, even then he came over & took things... Several of my physical issues are because of him.. He's not right in the head, he's violent, powerful, & insane... I can't go into details as I swept it all under the rug for my own safety... I pitty the person who married that monster & gave him 2 kids But sorry I come first...



Still, I'm wondering about the $1500 I have to hand him as a part of the divorce settlement.
Does anyone know if he gets to keep it? Or will they seize it as part of any repayment? In either case, it feels like I'm throwing that money out the window, when I REALLY need it, right about now.
If the courts tell you to pay it, then just pay it.. don't worry where it goes, or what he does with it... IF they want him to give them the money & he doesn't, the he's gonna be up doo doo creek.

What you should do is stop caring what happens to him, or what he does, or anything about him... This is your chance to start fresh, & you need to erase him the best you can. Its one of the ways to also start to heal... It'll be hard, but you gotta tell yourself that YOU come first & your not going to get sick over doo doo he does or needs to do.