RIP my beautiful Ash...

**trayi52** · 02-14-2010, 06:19 PM

So sorry you had to give up your beautiful Ash, my heart is with you right now, and I am so sad. Please know that my thoughts are with you, and I am sending you lots of hugs. Ash you will be missed so much, and you were loved very much.

((((HUGS))))

Willie

**carole** · 02-14-2010, 09:11 PM

Thank you Willie i know you have had heartache yourself, as many of us here have, been a tough day,just trying to get on with it.

**Lillycat** · 02-15-2010, 05:34 AM

my heart goes out to you as i read your posts.....i feel your pain....i wish you peace....

**apbtmom76** · 02-15-2010, 07:36 AM

Oh Carole, words cannot express how I feel for you right now, I am truely sorry for the loss of Ash, but he is at the rainbow bridge and will watch over you, (((HUGS)))) to you and your family.
RIP Ash, rin free and catch some butterflies

**slick** · 02-15-2010, 12:34 PM

Carole: forgive me because I just couldn't look at the pictures of Ash in his little box. I opened it and quickly closed it. That's just how my Max looked and it's still too raw for me.

LES I'll have to come back later.

Ash's grave looks beautiful and I know that he is happy right there where he can watch over you until you meet again.

{{{hugs}}}

**carole** · 02-15-2010, 02:18 PM

well another day has gone by another beginning,still have that empty feeling and sick feeling in the pit of my stomach, i guess in time it will go away,it has only been a few days.

Slick, nothing to forgive my dear,for me having the pics are comforting,but i understand how you feel,i posted a nice pic of Ash before he became ill, i prefer to remember him that way, i think i will get it enlarged and put it on the wall.
Slick Ash looks really peaceful in those pics,and to me beautiful.

Slick, Max and Mooshoo and Ash are all together now,it will get easier as time heals our hearts, but for now,let us bring each other comfort .

I go out every morning and sit on the swing couch, which is right beside Ash
s grave, and i think about him,it is helpful to me to do that, he is always within eyesight for me and i like that.

Thanks again to everyone who took the time to stop by and post such wonderful, caring, kind and comforting messages,it really helps such a lot to know there are others out there who understand.

**smokey the elder** · 02-16-2010, 09:14 AM

I'm so sorry about Ash. What a handsome boy.

**carole** · 02-16-2010, 12:58 PM

Yes he was a big beautiful fluffy boy,but the renal failure had ravaged his body and he was half the cat he used to be, was very sad to see.

**katladyd** · 02-16-2010, 01:52 PM

I know you are heartbroken, but when we had Tomas PTS, from renal failure and old age, we drew comfort from the fact he was no longer suffering. He went almost exactly the same way as Ash. Lost a bunch of weight, stopped eating, just literally gave up. I drew comfort from the idea that he felt much better and was playing again. I hope you can do the same. Please know that Ash thanks you for your loving decision, as hard as it was for you to make. You are still in my thoughts and prayers!

**rg_girlca** · 02-16-2010, 02:56 PM

Carole, I am so very sorry that your handsome boy, Ash has passed on.

Even though it hurts like heck to lose one of our beloved pets, we just have to be thankful of the times we had with our little furry friends and keep reminding ourselves how much richer our lives were to have them.

My heart goes out to you Carol, because I know, like others, all to well what you are going through. Everyone has their own path to healing and their own timetable for grieving.

Rest in Peace beautiful Ash and have fun up on the RB.

{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}} Carole.