I Miss Edwina & Edwardo

[Catty1]

I posted a link to this thread in a PM...and she did eventually reply.
Then I put her on Ignore.

That's it, for what it is worth.

[katladyd]

I thought she was a bigger person than that. You did nothing wrong, Catty1, nothing at all. Friends are precious and you shouldn't just throw them away like that. I will say again that the people here are the best, and I would never want to NOT come here for any reason. I wish her the best, I really do, but if that's how she feels, she is the one that is losing the most..

[Cinder & Smoke]

I posted a link to this thread in a PM...and she did eventually reply.

Then I put her on Ignore.

That's it, for what it is worth.

"Thats IT" ???

What happened to the multi-paragraph tail of the PMs that *used* to be
in that last post by Cat 1 ???
Seems like a lotta she said I said got left out.

More creative posting and deleting???

< shakes head >

[Barbara]

Dear everyone,
it is obvious that Sara knows about this thread. It is also obvious that she is hurt. Under these circumstances it may be the most friendly thing not to push her. Time will show what happens. Just think of her as a cat in a hidey hole. After a big shock she may need time to curl up and to sleep and if someone gets too close while the cat is in shock stage a claw may come out. Nobody on this board would blame the cat.
Eddie and Edwina are fine (and I am sure Edwina misses Joseph terribly) and Sara is not.
Every talking about "She did this" and "He answered that" and who loses most does not help at all.

[Catty1]

Phred - I had a PM from Karen that she edited my post, as what is in PMs should be private.

Twarn't me.

[Karen]

One should never - I repeat never take what was in a private message from someone and post it publicly. They are called private for a reason. Anyone who does that can be expected they will be removed, and scolded at the very least.

[katladyd]

I just wish peace and healing for everyone involved. I know what it is like to hurt.

[krazyaboutkatz]

Dear everyone,
it is obvious that Sara knows about this thread. It is also obvious that she is hurt. Under these circumstances it may be the most friendly thing not to push her. Time will show what happens. Just think of her as a cat in a hidey hole. After a big shock she may need time to curl up and to sleep and if someone gets too close while the cat is in shock stage a claw may come out. Nobody on this board would blame the cat.
Eddie and Edwina are fine (and I am sure Edwina misses Joseph terribly) and Sara is not.
Every talking about "She did this" and "He answered that" and who loses most does not help at all.

Very well said Barbara. I'm sure that she needs a break from PT and hopefully in time she'll decide to come back. We should all respect her decision.

[katladyd]

I fully respect her decision, but I still miss her and her lovely postings. I wish her nothing but the best.

[cassiesmom]

I fully respect her decision, but I still miss her and her lovely postings. I wish her nothing but the best.

Same here.

[catmandu]