As every one is saying, They all have different personalities. My Mits is not a lap cat, but likes to snuggle until I go to sleep. Bart knows he’s to big to be a lap cat , so he wants to sit along side me. Lucky likes to sit on the arm of my chair, Demetrio is my chest cat , will not sit on my lap, but likes to snuggle under my chine. He will then lay on his back in my arm. Lilly is the lap cat. Precious likes to lay on my chest and shoulder. Lenny just comes by for a head scratch, never leaves the floor, the same with Princess. We have ones that do not come near me and others that don’t go near my wife. And the list goes on I have learned to take each as they are. I still (8 years later) miss my Patches, but I have found that all our babies have a little of her in them.
They are all different, but the same.