Yes - free will, the opportunity to make choices so that we can learn and GROW from mistakes, missed opportunities or sad, bad or frightening experiences. We grow in heart, mind and spirit. That brings us closer to each other and closer to god (however you see god). To me god = joy so with god in my life I am joyful. If I am joyful, I have more clarity. If I have more clarity, I make better and more compassionate decisions. That brings me closer to god. . .and so I am joyful!!

When bad things happen, I try to give thanks because it is an opportunity to open a new door and follow a path to greater understanding of myself and my relationship with others. It is about connections for me. . . to all other beings. I still have a lot of growing to do.

But do you notice that as you learn to stop and think before you act, speak, respond that things are often better in your life? Do you listen to your "instinct? The voice that tells you what REALLY needs to be done?

I got an email yesterday and part of it was this:

god has only three answers. . ."Yes"
"Not yet"
"I have something much better in mind for you"
Even if you do not have a relationship with god or spirit, this can speak to you because we all have that voice inside that guides us. We usually know before we step into something what the outcome will be and whether we are making the right decision or not. The key is to trust that voice and let it help to guide your path. Call it whatever you like, just learn to listen. . .

Peace!
Cathy