Quote Originally Posted by Pinot's Mom View Post
Relax, breathe, relax, breathe...

Your lawyer knew this was coming; it's what they're paid for. You are not to stress with this. Think of it as a real estate transaction: when you're buying a house, what is your first "offer" to the seller? You want them to pay EVERYTHING and you pay bottom dollar. This is what your husband is trying to pull. RELAX. It's part of the process...let your lawyer stress...get all your ducks in a row, fight the good fight, and lean on your lawyer...and vent here!
I think he figured he had me downtrodden enough that I'd just roll over and give up. He doesn't realize he's awoken the fighting spirit in me. I'm completely calm, but I have a fire inside now. Everything will be done properly, thru the lawyer, but I'm not laying down to die.