Where I'm at now...something positive

[Karen]

Hope you are both having a good day today, thinking of you!

[Queen of Poop]

I'm trying to get my head around that fact that I believe he gave me something that has caused 2 big blanks in my life, both of which he was involved in and makes claims about for which I have no recall, knowledge, nothing.

[cassiesmom]

Hope you are both having a good day today, thinking of you!

I am, too !

[Queen of Poop]

Got his version of divorce papers today. He want's it all, everything, lock, stock and barrel only to leave me with NOTHING!!!

Fortunately Alberta law provides 50/50.

I am steaming mad now. I will spend tonight and this weekend finishing up my stuff for my lawyer. No more mr nice guy. Gloves are off.

He poked the bear, the bear is not impressed.

[Karen]

Got his version of divorce papers today. He want's it all, everything, lock, stock and barrel only to leave me with NOTHING!!!

Fortunately Alberta law provides 50/50.

I am steaming mad now. I will spend tonight and this weekend finishing up my stuff for my lawyer. No more mr nice guy. Gloves are off.

He poked the bear, the bear is not impressed.

I am glad you not only know the law, but are willing to fight. I wonder if his lawyer advised him to ask for everything, so you'd be happy if you got anything. Anyway, we'll of course be pulling for you to get as much as possible.

[Daisy and Delilah]

{{{{{GAYLE}}}}} The nerve of some people. Grrrrrrrrrrrr.......

Gayle and Rose::::You two will prevail!!!

[Pinot's Mom]

Got his version of divorce papers today. He want's it all, everything, lock, stock and barrel only to leave me with NOTHING!!!

Fortunately Alberta law provides 50/50.

I am steaming mad now. I will spend tonight and this weekend finishing up my stuff for my lawyer. No more mr nice guy. Gloves are off.

He poked the bear, the bear is not impressed.

Relax, breathe, relax, breathe...

Your lawyer knew this was coming; it's what they're paid for. You are not to stress with this. Think of it as a real estate transaction: when you're buying a house, what is your first "offer" to the seller? You want them to pay EVERYTHING and you pay bottom dollar. This is what your husband is trying to pull. RELAX. It's part of the process...let your lawyer stress...get all your ducks in a row, fight the good fight, and lean on your lawyer...and vent here!

[Queen of Poop]

Relax, breathe, relax, breathe...

Your lawyer knew this was coming; it's what they're paid for. You are not to stress with this. Think of it as a real estate transaction: when you're buying a house, what is your first "offer" to the seller? You want them to pay EVERYTHING and you pay bottom dollar. This is what your husband is trying to pull. RELAX. It's part of the process...let your lawyer stress...get all your ducks in a row, fight the good fight, and lean on your lawyer...and vent here!

I think he figured he had me downtrodden enough that I'd just roll over and give up. He doesn't realize he's awoken the fighting spirit in me. I'm completely calm, but I have a fire inside now. Everything will be done properly, thru the lawyer, but I'm not laying down to die.

[rosethecopycat]

I think he figured he had me downtrodden enough that I'd just roll over and give up. He doesn't realize he's awoken the fighting spirit in me. I'm completely calm, but I have a fire inside now. Everything will be done properly, thru the lawyer, but I'm not laying down to die.

I'm glad you've got that spirit Gayle.

In my state it is a 50/50 divorce rule too. But my husband seems to think it means equal, when in actuality it means equitable or fair.
There's quite a big difference in the two.

Your husband is playing poker now. He's starting off high, so he has somewhere to drop back to. Why not ask for it all, to see if by chance you get it?
There is domestic abuse in your case, which changes matters also.
Hand it all over to your lawyer, the worry and anxiety.

We are thinking of you..

[Pinot's Mom]

We're thinking of both of you - you're doing very well!