How do you know if your dog runs the house? (help..)

[Giselle]

Honestly, the word "dominance" has been misconstrued and misunderstood. Having had the fortune of observing actual groups of feral dogs, I can tell you that our conventional perceptions of a "dog pack" are not accurate at all.

Hank's behavior does not sound dominating to me. He sounds like a normal puppy-adolescent. He needs obedience, rules, and boundaries. All adolescent dogs do The chewing is extremely normal. The fact that he chose to chew your pants just means that you should not have left them within his reach. His peeing in the house probably means that he could benefit from a refresher course in housebreaking. He does not run the house. You do! Dogs really don't have a desire to "run the house". They (generally) have been domesticated for far too long to want these primal desires ;]

In the meantime, I would do three basic things to provide more structure:
- A lot of exercise
- NILIF
- Brush up on basic obedience in all situations at all times

[CountryWolf07]

In the meantime, I would do three basic things to provide more structure:
- A lot of exercise
- NILIF
- Brush up on basic obedience in all situations at all times

What is exactly NILIF? I make him work for his treats or his food, I usually have him sit, lay down, paw, roll over, whatever tricks he knows best, and he deserves that meal. He is a really smart dog, I got to admit. He is a good dog, you're right, he's just still a puppy. We have started to walk him A LOT every day, in the morning, mid-afternoon, and evening right before the sun goes down - he loves it, and it makes him happy. So we do that and we are still trying to train him on how to walk on a leash, too.

Also, when my dad was home, he spent ALL of his time with Hank. He is truly my dad's dog. He is his baby. He is still adjusting to having to see that there won't be always be people around in the house. (come & go, errands, etc.) and we also trained him to "Go in cage" so he will go in there and stay there until we are back home from whatever we are done with, and he is allowed to come out. He is still learning.

Thanks everyone!

[Giselle]

Yep, you got it basically NILIF = Nothing in Life is Free. As my mentor calls it, it's a "learn to earn" program. If Doggy wants something (anything), Doggy must earn it. If Doggy wants dinner, Doggy must wait for the verbal release. If Doggy wants to go for a walk, Doggy must wait at the threshold and walk on a loose-leash. If Doggy wants attention, Doggy must wait quietly or perform an acceptable behavior. The key to NILIF, imo, is to free-shape behaviors so that the dog THINKS and offers good behaviors voluntarily. That's the real beauty of it, imo.

Stick with the rules, stay with the boundaries, keep his obedience incredibly sharp, and you shouldn't have a problem! Above all, have fun!