At first I was bothered....I read on PetTalk that Senator Boxer did not want to be called ma'am....

A little truth in whine is in order!

She told the General she wanted to be called Senator. Just as I am willing to bet the General expects to be called...General.

Whether I agree with either of them is beside the point.

Both are entitled to be called by the title they have earned. General for him...Senator for her.

Not too complicated really!