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    Maybe he feels like you like him seriously and he isn't ready for that...just be more laid back about him and he will probably come around.
    Good point, Caseysmom!! The more I know men, the more I like my cats!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by moosmom View Post
    Good point, Caseysmom!! The more I know men, the more I like my cats!!
    Oh yea...I agree with you 100% on that one! And, my dog Casey too. Casey is way more loving and faithful than any man I have met yet. Also, no man has ever been as happy to see me as my dog is when I get home from work!

    But, you are young snowbelle and I have heard there are actually some good guys out there. Just be true to your heart and don't let the guys change your outlook on life.

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    People can be very strange when it comes to relationships. I always figure, if they aren't in the same place that you are about emotions and their interactions, then it's not worth stressing over. I feel that it's a good thing you found out that he is what they call "emotionally unavailable" now rather than having invested a lot of time and effort into a relationship and then have him go all weird on you. I was married for 15 years before I realized that my husband at the time wasn't giving as good as he was getting!

    As for all the negative stuff about men, people are all nuts. . .men and women! What you have to do is find the nut that suits your needs and that is the perfect match! I did! Barry and I found each other later in life and realized that all the other "junk" was just sort of a rehearsal so that we could get this one right!


    Don't beat yourself up for loving someone. Just take this as a lesson learned and move on. You WILL get over it, I assure you!

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