My husband's and my experience was about 25 years ago, when all the technology was JUST coming in to play, and the doctor's offices were not geared toward infertility at all. I'd call in to be tested at a certain critical point, the first question was, "are you pregnant?". That is a devastating question.
In any case, there is a plan. God did not grant us children, but, later on we have figured out there was another road. This is not my thread, so I won't elaborate, but suffice it to say it all has a reason. Peace.
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