I'm not terribly fussy about food so I don't send something back unless it's blatantly not right..lasagna frozen in the middle...Cold cold food. I wouldn't order a steak anywhere but a steakhouse (I actually like Outback!) I certainly know what I'd get by ordering a steak at Applebee's or TGIF. ick! I generally order on the safe side..salad..soup..I would NEVER go out to Thai or Indian because I know there's more I DON"T like on the menu and expecting the waitress to understand MY particular taste isn't going to happen. I only eat out as a social thing really. If I want something in particular, no one can cook myself something I'd like better than me.