I saw your other thread that Buddy IS coming back.

MAKE it work! Sometimes it takes longer than average.

Do you remember when Simba was returned and I fostered him for the second time? It was horrible at first. And then I wanted so bad to integrate him into the permanent family, and he chased ad tormented and caused fights?

I had to keep putting him back upstairs and slowly allowed him down short periods at a time.

He is really very good with everyone now, even the 2 cats he seemed to hate before.

If Buddy was meant to be yours, don't fight it! You know that THEY pick us, remember?