I consider myself pretty lucky in the employement arena. I have had 2 long term jobs since beginning my professional career. I am excluding the summer temp jobs. I tend to like most people. I also tend to be a hard worker, and kind of bright (not smart, bright) in that I catch on fast.

However, I also tend to be a know-it-all (I know that is shocking to most of you), and I ALWAYS know a better way to do things (smirk). I have learned that last trait really, really, really rubs people the wrong way. Coming into a place, new on the scene, with youthful exuberance and innovative ideas raises the hackles of the old timers, no matter how great the idea may be. An outsiders fresh look at a company seems to frighten people. That causes tension in the work place, and can make people bristle- both ways.

So, I cut people a break, go out of my way to be friendly and personable, and remember that starting a new job is one of the most stressful environments that exists. I also remember that new ideas, attitudes and individuals are what makes going into work each day so much fun. I mean that last part. I work with, and have usually worked with, a great group of people that care about me, as I care about them. People don't have to think just like me in order for me to like them. (It helps....it helps...).

I work with someone now that formed a pretty quick opinion of me, and it was NOT favorable. Frankly, I think she was wrong to judge me. BUT, today? 10 years later? We are the best of friends. I try not to make snap decisions about people...but, my inklings are usually correct.