A guy does NOT define me....rant.

**Taz_Zoee** · 03-10-2009, 09:40 AM

Jennie said exactly what I was gonna say. You need to be happy with yourself first. I'm actually surprised she even found a man with that way of thinking.

And I think you are very pretty. The color of your hair and your beautiful eyes.....WOW!!

**mruffruff** · 03-10-2009, 10:05 AM

She is so Wrong!!

I haven't had a guy in my life for many years, but that doesn't make me ugly. Try self-confident and choosy.

And you are a very pretty girl. Wish I was that young again.

**caseysmom** · 03-10-2009, 10:10 AM

Your beautiful and you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Just ignore her you know what she is saying is just plain wierd.

**AllAmericanPUP** · 03-10-2009, 10:17 AM

How very sad for her.

**Zippy** · 03-10-2009, 05:11 PM

Your brother's GF must be blind.You are very pretty.

**Karen** · 03-10-2009, 05:19 PM

Can you image what kind of childhood she has had, that she has learned form someone that your worth and attractiveness depends on having a boyfriend? The poor thing.

Karen - who has now been married longer than I was single - pretty wierd!

**carole** · 03-10-2009, 05:56 PM

You are as cute as a button, yes one has to feel very sad indeed for this young woman, fancy in this day and age thinking that, but still i think for her to come out and say to you what she did, is firstly very unkind, immature and down right un-called for and so.....UNTRUE.

The girl needs her eyes tested, maybe she is slightly jealous of you ,that is what i think anyhow.

Fancy validating herself like that, and everyone else, actually she is very ugly inside and from what you said not so great on the outside either.

I suppose one could say she feels better about herself now that she has a man,but that is so sad isn't it?

Often people like her just have to say something nasty to others to make them feel better.

Anyhow glad you did not take it to heart, treat it like water of a ducks back, but i would tell her how you feel, state how unkind she was and how you felt hurt, and let her know how ridiculous her statement is.

**Alysser** · 03-10-2009, 06:37 PM

That's one of the stupidest things someone has ever said, by far! She's an obvious moron, I would never listen to her. I'm glad you won't either, you're certainly not ugly, you look very pretty in that picture. I'm glad your brother defended you but if I was in his position she'd be out the door on her butt, family comes first.

I'm not single but it's just stupid to even talk like that. She isn't the sharpest tack in the draw now is she?

**kokopup** · 03-10-2009, 07:18 PM

Unfortunately there are many that measure there self worth by faulty
standards, be it a boy friend or material things.

An american actress and athlete Sasha Azevedo had this to say about self worth.

“When you're a beautiful person on the inside, there is nothing in the world that can change that about you. Jealousy is the result of one's lack of self-confidence, self-worth, and self-acceptance. The Lesson: If you can't accept yourself, then certainly no one else will.”

When I see your picture I see a beautiful girl. Over my many years
the women that I found the most beautiful had a sparkle in their eyes
that came from within. To quote a beauty of my day, Sophia Loren.

“Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.”

The life you have ahead of you for the most part will be determined
by how you feel about yourself. You seem to have your head on straight, keep it that way.

**kitten645** · 03-10-2009, 09:01 PM

You are beautiful and she's an idiot. Ignore her. You can't control what others do, you can only control how you react to them. Pointless getting mad as she is clearly ugly on the inside.
Word to the wise (your brother), this chick spells trouble.
Claudia
Single and covered in cat fur!