A guy does NOT define me....rant.

[pomtzu]

I think you are very pretty!

And I'm happy as a clam - and the only men in my life - are my son, grandson, and dog!!!

[jennielynn1970]

Hrm... how does your brother pick these women??

For the record, you're adorable!

Secondly, I am happy, and I'm cute, and I'm single. So tell Ms. What's her name she's gotta be happy with herself first, and then maybe she'll see herself as pretty as well. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but if you need to feel it in yourself first.

[Taz_Zoee]

Jennie said exactly what I was gonna say. You need to be happy with yourself first. I'm actually surprised she even found a man with that way of thinking.

And I think you are very pretty. The color of your hair and your beautiful eyes.....WOW!!

[mruffruff]

She is so Wrong!!

I haven't had a guy in my life for many years, but that doesn't make me ugly. Try self-confident and choosy.

And you are a very pretty girl. Wish I was that young again.

[caseysmom]

Your beautiful and you sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Just ignore her you know what she is saying is just plain wierd.

[AllAmericanPUP]

How very sad for her.

[Zippy]

Your brother's GF must be blind.You are very pretty.

[Karen]

Can you image what kind of childhood she has had, that she has learned form someone that your worth and attractiveness depends on having a boyfriend? The poor thing.

Karen - who has now been married longer than I was single - pretty wierd!

[carole]

You are as cute as a button, yes one has to feel very sad indeed for this young woman, fancy in this day and age thinking that, but still i think for her to come out and say to you what she did, is firstly very unkind, immature and down right un-called for and so.....UNTRUE.

The girl needs her eyes tested, maybe she is slightly jealous of you ,that is what i think anyhow.

Fancy validating herself like that, and everyone else, actually she is very ugly inside and from what you said not so great on the outside either.

I suppose one could say she feels better about herself now that she has a man,but that is so sad isn't it?

Often people like her just have to say something nasty to others to make them feel better.

Anyhow glad you did not take it to heart, treat it like water of a ducks back, but i would tell her how you feel, state how unkind she was and how you felt hurt, and let her know how ridiculous her statement is.