A person should have as many children as they can love, and afford. NO one should have a child on welfare let alone 14. If you are on welfare that is the government telling you that you are either to poor to care for your child because of mental issues or to ill to work. In either case you are unable to care, feed, house yourself and you should not be having a child. In most cases you went and asked for that help, starting you were unable to care for yourself, so you have no business asking the government or anyone else to care for your kid