[Dear You. . .]

[RipplingWaves55]

Dear I lovemyAbbygirl,

I know you don't know me, but I have read your posts with sadness. I hope you'll take this as it is meant to be, in no way is it a criticism, but I just have to comment on one thing you wrote.

Alcohol is not the answer. A relationship built on the affects of alcohol is doomed from the start. Alcohol doesn't bring out the real person. Please just be very careful. This seems like a very dangerous type of relationship, especially emotionally. I really hope you do find happiness and that you will continue to share your feelings with us. Maybe you could go back through this thread and read your previous posts taking note of how often you've posted very similiar sounding events and your feelings and your resolves after each of those. Sadly it does sound like a vicious cycle. You are worth more than that and deserve better.

Sincerely,
Moe

Yeah. You don't need alcohol to love

[pomtzu]

Yeah. You don't need alcohol to love

Sounds like an obsession - not love! Move on to something less counter-productive!

[RipplingWaves55]

Sounds like an obsession - not love! Move on to something less counter-productive!

She said up before that she would drink alcohol to keep him in her life -- I'm moving out of this subject till Catty1 and Ilovemyabbygirl stop.

[lvpets2002]

LOL I dont blame ya.. Hey come on to Texas for some Sun & Warmth.. Its getting a bit chilled here..

She said up before that she would drink alcohol to keep him in her life -- I'm moving out of this subject till Catty1 and Ilovemyabbygirl stop.

[jennielynn1970]

Dear Meg,
My heart is breaking for you.

Hugs...
Jenn

[Moesha]

Dear Everyone,

I'm sorry for butting in where I shouldn't have. I should have remembered this is a thread for people to unload what they are feeling without being judged for that. I'll remember that from now on. I really feel bad. Apologies to you.

Moe

[Scooter's Mom]

Dear "internet people who pretended to be my friends for ages"...

For many years one of you and I have been internet friends. We talked about all kinds of things. Then we joined this group with another of your friends from online. Everyone got snarky and petty and rude. Even though we never met in person, 6 years of online friendship still hurts when it's ripped away. Not even gently tugged but ripped... When you allow the other person to ban me from the new group, with no explanation... when I am at my lowest point ever physically and mentally. That shows me you were never a friend, but dang you're a great actor. I hope when I die, you feel bad for treating another human being, someone who wears their heart on their sleeve and gives everything they have to a friendship... with such lack of regard.

The bumper sticker says it best. Mean people suck.

*sigh*
Me.

[DJFyrewolf36]

Dear you,

Ive been meaning to get this off my chest for a while...

You have a long history of meddling and scheming and plotting and now its all coming back to you. Everyone you know "is out to get you" but did you ever think of why that is?
I like so many people trusted you. Then I found out about how you manipulate, you use and you abuse without thought to how it will affect others that don't even know who you are.
I would be angry...but I know it won't do any good. I hope that some day you will see what you have done to people is wrong...but I doubt it. Your ways will catch up to you and since you have spurned everyone you know, even your own family, don't expect any help when your little house of cards comes crashing down on your head.
Since the only thing I can do now is pick up all the shards of my life after you and your games ripped everything apart, I should just stop thinking about you entirely. Maybe you'll get it one day, maybe you wont. But I'm done wasting my time hoping. I wish that no one else has to suffer through you. You don't know it all, just because you've taken a couple of psych classes. You aren't nearly as smart as you think, and it will bite you in the ass and hard. Don't expect anyone to give a crap when it does.

~me

[DJFyrewolf36]

Dear PT

I'm tired of hiding my situation but I don't want to post it publicly because the person I'm having a problem with was a PT member at one point but I am sure isn't active. I have no way of telling if said person is lurking either. Short end of it my life is in utter chaos all because of one person starting drama

I wish I knew what to do other than just go along with it. But going along with it basically involves admitting that a lot of things that were said are true and they just aren't. After losing Nina and this situation, its getting a lot harder to even get up sometimes.

Thanks for letting me vent, and beliveing I am a good person. Some days I'm not so sure.

~me

[jennielynn1970]

Dear "internet people who pretended to be my friends for ages"...

For many years one of you and I have been internet friends. We talked about all kinds of things. Then we joined this group with another of your friends from online. Everyone got snarky and petty and rude. Even though we never met in person, 6 years of online friendship still hurts when it's ripped away. Not even gently tugged but ripped... When you allow the other person to ban me from the new group, with no explanation... when I am at my lowest point ever physically and mentally. That shows me you were never a friend, but dang you're a great actor. I hope when I die, you feel bad for treating another human being, someone who wears their heart on their sleeve and gives everything they have to a friendship... with such lack of regard.

The bumper sticker says it best. Mean people suck.

*sigh*
Me.

Hugs to you, hon.

Love, Jenn

[Scooter's Mom]

Dear Work,

Since you can't legally fire me because of my FMLA status, you decided to move me from my much beloved department AGAIN, back to the data entry department, which you know I can never make quota at because of my migraines and other neurological issues as well as the osteo-arthritis in my hands. Thanks for taking any joy I had in work, out.

Sincerely,
me.




Dear Life,

I'm tired of seeing a bottomless pit of despair everywhere.
Cut me a frickin' break would you? I cannot take anymore of this crap.

Respectfully,
me again.

[Catty1]

Crystal - HUGS. I sure hope you have someone to go to bat for you there.

Sending prayers that you'll have an answer soon and FEEL BETTER.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Dear me,

You need to figure out who you are and who you want to be. You've got two different people pulling you in two different directions. Liberal or conservative? You need to make a choice. Liberal Meg has fun, conservative Meg doesn't get in trouble. There's inticing things on both sides. Liberal Meg can go to parties and have fun and come out of her shell. Conservative Meg plays by the rules.

So what's your choice?

Figure your sh*t out. I'm tired of waiting. I need to know what to do before Thursday, thanks. Thursday is going to be the deciding factor.

All my impatience,
.Meg

[RipplingWaves55]

Dear Oreo,

I still miss you and hope you're still out there in the world somewhere... you're probably at the Bridge by now but I hope you didn't get abused when you left.

[pomtzu]

She said up before that she would drink alcohol to keep him in her life -- I'm moving out of this subject till Catty1 and Ilovemyabbygirl stop.

I meant for ilovemyabbygirl to move on to something less counter-productive. Sorry if I wasn't clear on that.