I've read all your posts about Ashley, but don't think I ever responded. Mostly because I was so dumbfounded, I didn't know what to say.

I think she hates herself and is taking it out on you. Anyway, my parents used to say that sometimes the more you give, the less you get back. I think I'm shocked because your her mother (parents) and I couldn't fanthom treating my parents that way. I visit my 90 y.o. aunt in a nursing home 3x a week, do her wash and sit with her, and her son comes 1x a week for 15 minutes. Granted, she's a difficult person (all her life) and I was never crazy about her, but she's family and I was taught respect.

I'm glad Ashley will be out of your hair. Like it was mentioned, make sure you make it clear she can't come back. It must still hurt you, although you're happy she'll be gone. But I hope this gives you some peace in your lives now, so you can rebuild your relationships. You did all you could. I pray you don't waste precious time and start thinking back what you did wrong, or could have done better. Forget about it and live your life. You deserve it after suffering all these years. Bless you and Grant.
(go on a 2nd honeymoon!)