Kids

[sasvermont]

I moved home a couple of times when I was younger. The rules were spelled out before I moved in. I will admit I didn't have much fun while I was there, but I wasn't there for fun, just security. Once I recovered, I moved out. I hope things run smoothly for you both. I never felt unwelcome because I always followed the cues and rules. My Mom was always accommodating but strict.

I would request that your daughter rent a small locker/storage unit to hold all her "products and possessions" not able to fit in your home. YOUR home.

I believe agreements/compromises are best when dealing with friends and family.

Talk is cheap....so keep communicating with your daughter. If she doesn't want to abide by your rules and meet your needs, then she can find another place to live.

I am always surprised at parents that don't know how to say NO or ENOUGH and give their kids their thoughts and direction. I wonder how it would work if the situation was reversed and you had to move in with her? EVERYONE has the right to lay down rules when it comes to who and how people (guests!!) live in their homes.

Good luck. Be strict - but loving!

[IRescue452]

Only one rat? Oh mommy you didn't teach her enough about animal care. She moved back in because you still have work to do.






I hope I never have to mave back in as well. I've outgrown my mom's house a zillion times over. I need space.