He is so much a part of everything - your house, PT - it seems impossible he could be 'gone'.

I suppose vet Trudy will agree with letting Barney go. I have these ridiculous thoughts like "she'll say, 'oh we can aspirate this and he'll have a few more good months' and stupid things like that.

Like with my mom's Pyka - and my sister - we had to put our own feelings out of the way and put what was best for Pyka and Darcia first.

Please, kisses to Barney for me! *les*