Honestly girls i do not think there is a particular way to handle these situations, except to be completely honest about it and handle it with tack and be nice about it, if the guy cannot handle it, what can you do, just move on,everyone has to come face to face with rejection sometime in their lives,it is really out of your hands if they choose to deal with it in a negative way, take it from an old girl,this is just a fact of life.