How do you politely tell someone your not interested...

[shepgirl]

That would be the way I chose to tell him too. Honesty is always the best way and won't lead to misundestandings or false hopes.

[sumbirdy]

Well, I did it. I basically used Karens words. I told him that I liked him as a friend and that I didn't mean to mislead him. I told him he was very nice and someday he'll make some girl very lucky, ect. ect...

His feelings were hurt, and he said he didn't know if he could stay friends with me. But he also said that may be because he's so embarrased and to give him a couple of weeks. I don't know exactly what to think of that, but I do hope that in a couple of weeks he realizes we can still be friends.