Iīm sorry you are going through all of this... and I do get your point... itīs really hard having less ins than outs (of money/expenses)... and more hard to think that you still have to provide for all involved...

In my position i too would say I wouldnīt rehome.. but I just donīt know.. if I were in the same situation I would still consider... maybe not if I had a nice paying job and we struggled.... but it I were drowning thatīs another story...

things add up, and not knowing all the facts can be hard to understand, because it might not be what youīd do (not directed to anyone specifically) but it it what she NEEDS to do... not what the wants or likes... she has come to the conclusion she needs this done otherwise as I get it sheīll get caught in an avalanche of problems, struggles for $, evolving in struggles for food and medical care (human and furry)...

Iīm sorry it has come to this... and I know itīs pretty hard on you... and be sure I wonīt make it harder on you... if you need me Iīm all support... I donīt need to know all the facts or be there every sec on your life and i donīt have to agree with you 100% (life is not all pink) but Iīm here for you.... hang in there.. a way will come...