Sad news....(UPDATE from FUNERAL and 3 pics)

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

We went to my sister yesterday. OMG she is so devastated shocked helpless etc... . She was crying so intense, it was heartbraking.... Her daughters stay with her; but what AFTER the funeral?? She will need lots of help, lots....

btw the funeral will be on friday 21st. This day they would have celebrated their 39th anniversary

[Medusa]

Yes, she's going to need lots of company for a good while. When my Dad passed, Mom couldn't be left alone or she would become hysterical. I found that the best therapy for her was talk, talk and more talk, all about Dad. This may be what your SIL needs, too. I will definitely remember you all in my prayers. Peace to you all.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Yes, she's going to need lots of company for a good while. When my Dad passed, Mom couldn't be left alone or she would become hysterical. I found that the best therapy for her was talk, talk and more talk, all about Dad. This may be what your SIL needs, too. I will definitely remember you all in my prayers. Peace to you all.

Thanks Mary!!
I will try to be with her asap; I wish I lived a lot closer though...

My dad is so shocked too. He is almost 86 and cannot believe what happened. He cannot talk about it with my mom, because she is dementing

RIP dear Bernard

[Catty1]

Lut - if your sister can use a computer, and you both download Skype, you can talk free to each other on the Skype 'phone'. You need speakers and a microphone - or a headset and microphone. (Some headsets have the mics included).

Is there anyone she can stay with for a while?

{{{{hugs}}}}

[phesina]

Prayers for your sister and all your family, Lut.

Love,
Pat

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Lut - if your sister can use a computer, and you both download Skype, you can talk free to each other on the Skype 'phone'. You need speakers and a microphone - or a headset and microphone. (Some headsets have the mics included).

Is there anyone she can stay with for a while?

{{{{hugs}}}}

No... she doesn't...; she knows absolutely nothing about computers....

[lvpets2002]

No... she doesn't...; she knows absolutely nothing about computers....

Lut is there anyway she could come stay with you for a while or would that be a option?? If so then you could coach her on the computer & then when she went back home you both could talk on the computer..

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Lut is there anyway she could come stay with you for a while or would that be a option?? If so then you could coach her on the computer & then when she went back home you both could talk on the computer..

That is a great idea! Thanks!! I know she will need lots of distraction, so if she agrees, I will install msn on her pc, and teach her how to use it! At this moment she doesn't even know how to start up a pc . But I will suggest it to her asap!