Sad news....(UPDATE from FUNERAL and 3 pics)

[Casper]

I am so sorry your family is having to go through this so unexpectedly.
I always find sudden deaths to be the hardest to deal with.

Sending prayers and healing vibes for all of your family. (((((Hugs)))))

[phesina]

Oh, Lut. What a shock for you all, and how heartbreaking.

Prayers for you and all your family, and deepest sympathy to all.

Rest in peace, Bernard. You were and are beloved.

[Kirsten]

Oh Lut, I'm so sorry about your family's loss!

My heartfelt condolences to your sister and their daughters, and the rest of the family.

Kirsten

[jazzcat]

I'm very sorry Lut. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

We went to my sister yesterday. OMG she is so devastated shocked helpless etc... . She was crying so intense, it was heartbraking.... Her daughters stay with her; but what AFTER the funeral?? She will need lots of help, lots....

btw the funeral will be on friday 21st. This day they would have celebrated their 39th anniversary

[Medusa]

Yes, she's going to need lots of company for a good while. When my Dad passed, Mom couldn't be left alone or she would become hysterical. I found that the best therapy for her was talk, talk and more talk, all about Dad. This may be what your SIL needs, too. I will definitely remember you all in my prayers. Peace to you all.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Yes, she's going to need lots of company for a good while. When my Dad passed, Mom couldn't be left alone or she would become hysterical. I found that the best therapy for her was talk, talk and more talk, all about Dad. This may be what your SIL needs, too. I will definitely remember you all in my prayers. Peace to you all.

Thanks Mary!!
I will try to be with her asap; I wish I lived a lot closer though...

My dad is so shocked too. He is almost 86 and cannot believe what happened. He cannot talk about it with my mom, because she is dementing

RIP dear Bernard