Knowing how you have tried helping so many kitties and being so particular about placing them in permanent homes, would you place Patches in a home like yours? One with many kitties and where finances could be a problem with vet care in a very small apartment? I'm not trying to give advice one way or the other, I'm just asking you to think if you were trying to place Patches. Perhaps you would look further than the superficial circumstances and see the person and the love they have for the kitty or perhaps you would say that Patches would be better off in a different kind of home and you would keep looking for a suitable family.