I Need to Ask You All a Question

[Anikaca77]

Thank you so much for your response. I would like to answer your questions, just so others know the ages of my others and the health issues.

Claudia 6 yrs. old. she was just diagnosed with having crystals in her urine and she was peeing outside the box so we have her one special food right now but she gets can food twice a day (vet orders) and she doesn't complain so the cost for the can food is $1.29 each and that lasts about a day. The vet said she'll have to have that the rest of her life to keep the crystals from coming back and the infection hopefully will stop with gluecosume pills I have to give her but I found a great deal on them on Amazon so I'll be ordering them next month and I'll hopefully have enough for the rest of next year.

Ashley 4 yrs. old, she's over all very heathly knock on wood.

Sebastin 6 yrs old and he's healthy as well.

Hermes 2 yrs old has Herpes which we give him some lysine to control his outbreaks which they seem to be okay right now.

Fiona 1 yrs old....she does the grinding of her jaw and we've never been able to figure out why she does it but when you scratch her jaw she will grind her teeth very hard and it just sounds painful but she doens't appear to be in any pain and I've had her at the vets and we still can't figure it out. When we do pet her sometimes she will want us to rub on her jaw but we don't do it because we know what the result will be.

Athena 2 yrs old is the one I rescused earlier this year from the streets of Bellefonte and she's pretty healthy other than that hernia operation she had to have earlier this year after she was spayed.

Osiris...he's a bad**s, he's about 9 months now and healthy as a horse.

Patches (even though if we adopted her I would probably change her name to something special) appears to be very healthy, she was born on a farm and she developed a bad eye infection (I don't recall what the name of it was) and a lady took her to the vets and they said that she needs her eye taken out and so the lady fixed her up and Shirley has her now because the lady who rescued Patches has a lot of health issues and couldn't keep her.

I just wanted to clear up that I'm not looking for another cat to sleep with me like Anika did, I was just saying that I missed the way Anika slept with me. I still have my Claudia who usually sleeps on my pillow and sometimes others sleep ontop of me but it all depends.

I think the question I really meant to ask is how many of you have felt this feeling between and cat and were able to let them go to another home. I posted a thing up on craiglist about her and I just hated doing it because in a way I want to take her home with me and in a way I don't know how she will do with the rest of our guys considering they play rough sometimes.

Thank you all for your suggestions and comments,
Melissa

What is the health right now of the 7; what is involved potentially with Patches health issues. What are the current 7's ages, what is Patches age. All these things jump on the consideration table when you think finances. But that is only ONE of many factors to consider. Yeah, sometimes it is a deciding factor. But the fact that you are "wobbling" suggests it is not the deciding factor in this case.

There is no guarantee Patches will sleep with you the way Anika did. Ask yourself if you are going to be disappointed in that. You need to be able to love Patches for herself.

Best wishes as you think this through.

[Medusa]

Well, you didn't know how any of your cats would get along w/each other in the beginning, did you? Gradually, they fit in and got along, even if they do like to rough house on occasion. There will be an adjustment period, of course, but eventually they should learn to accept one another.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

If it helps, I am sure Anika will have sent her to you for you to find

[Moesha]

Knowing how you have tried helping so many kitties and being so particular about placing them in permanent homes, would you place Patches in a home like yours? One with many kitties and where finances could be a problem with vet care in a very small apartment? I'm not trying to give advice one way or the other, I'm just asking you to think if you were trying to place Patches. Perhaps you would look further than the superficial circumstances and see the person and the love they have for the kitty or perhaps you would say that Patches would be better off in a different kind of home and you would keep looking for a suitable family.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

After my Sydney's passing to the Bridge, we went to a shelter within 1 week. I was so sad without a cat; and I felt that Sydney wanted me to get a new one.
As soon as we spotted our Maya, she started meowing to us non-stop, telling us she had chosen us and that she was sent by Sydney
You must follow your heart. You will FEEL what's the right thing to do