I don't have time right now for a detailed post but I have to say this......it sounds like you live a sheltered life, at least thinking you have no gay people around you.
I can tell, without a doubt, that you don't really know any gay people too well do you? Because you seem to assume alot and choose not to become familiar with gays and become educated, I can put little or no faith in what you say at all.
Your arrogance and lack of knowledge is astounding.

As far as Americans respecting majority vote. Doesn't that imply that I have to go along with someone just because it's their opinion and not mine? Why bother to have a choice on the ballot?

Please open your mind and heart to what people here are telling you. You speak of gays like some sort of monsters that decide to be weird. That's not even close to the truth. I can only beg you to become educated before you write any more hateful comments.

You still haven't answered the question directly. What will you do if one of your children is gay and comes out to you? What will you do? Will you stop loving he/she when this happens?
How would you feel if you or one of your relatives were in the position of the SIL sparks speaks about?

I really can't believe the audacity of some of your remarks. Incorrect assumptions and general statements without backup. All the gays I know would give you every chance in the world if you needed one. Please do the same for them.

So much for a short post..........your original post listed many uncalled for remarks. You basically invited rebuttal so please don't wonder where it's coming from.