Quote Originally Posted by beeniesmom View Post
PCB, From your post I am understanding that you obviously didn't get to choose your husband. I am sorry about that and the fact that you think you can't be with the one you really love. Personally, I think that's a lie. I just hope you don't choose your kids' husband or wife as your parents did for you. Also, you say you don't descriminate.... Can you spell Hypocrite?"
I'm really busy today, and do not have time to respond to the other posts right now, but I had to respond to this post...because this post is the joke of the century!!! GOOD LORD!!!

I chose my husband, love my husband with all my heart, would give my life for my husband, and much, much more. Everyone who knows me knows that, and everyone who knows my husband knows that he adores me the same. I truly can't get over how ridiculous AND infuriating this post of your's was, and can't for the life of me understand what you derived it from. Sheesh.

I am furious that you dare speak about my husband and parents in the way that you did. God has blessed me with the best husband, the best parents, and tremendous love in my life, and neither my parents, nor my husband has ever forced me into anything I didn't want, and I am confident that they never will.

The bottom line is the majority of California, the majority of America, and the majority of the world agree with me. Gay marriages are illegal in most of the country, and in most of the world, and ALL of the propositions regarding this issue this elections have passed by the vote of the people. Even IF you believe in the gay lifestyle, there IS NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. They have 'rights' in the state. No one is seperating them or commanding them to live away from each other. Why do they want marriage? Is this all about money? Inheritance and insurance benefits? I cannot see any other reason why they want to call it marriage so badly because there is no other special benefit that calling it marriage will give them.

As for me, I do not believe anyone is born gay and I never will. I do believe some people are born as intersexuals with both sexual organs or neither. Anyone who is born with a condition has no control over the way they are. No one has control over whether they have white skin or black, whether they will be tall or short, whether they will have blue eyes or brown. Anyone who is 'born' in a certain way carries no blame for how they are born. I do not believe anyone is born gay, and most people don't. There is no scientific evidence that there is a gay gene. Even if there were, the population of gays would die out, because gays cannot reproduce, and thus cannot pass the genes on to the next generation. We're all born the same, pure, innocent, beautiful, male or female. When you go to visit a new mom at the hospital, there are two balloon options. "IT'S A BOY!!!" or "IT'S A GIRL!!!" There isn't any, "IT'S A GAY!!!"

Kids don't 'turn out' to be gay. I've known several girls in high school who claimed that they just realized they're gay. Fast forward a few years, they are all now with MALE partners. So much for being gay. They're just confused. If they were truly born gay and had to be with a gay partner, then none of that would've changed. We all have control over where we put our hands, where we put our feet, where we turn our gaze to, where we give a listening ear, and where we put our sexual organs. The sexual actions we do are a choice we make. No one MAKES us do it. It IS a choice, nothing more.

I do not believe I will have ultimate control over my kids. No one does. I will have the duty to nurture and guide them. When kids grow up, they do what they want, and parents hope that they will stick to the guidance they gave them. I hope for the same.

Funny how you guys turn to personal offenses instead of addressing the issue at hand. I thought Americans respect majority vote. Isn't that what democracy is all about?