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[caseysmom]

Very good post, Candace.

I know many gay people. I can assure anybody that these people were born the way they are. I'm not speaking of those that wish to "experiment" just to see what it's like.

PCB, in all due respect for you and your beliefs. Which, I might add, I'm not trying to change. I really think you might be deceiving yourself to think you can have such complete control over your future children. I really don't believe this to be true. Unless you plan to try brainwashing techniques, you should maybe prepare yourself for what could happen.

I am really confused about some of your comments. You aren't judgemental but here in this thread, you are being judgemental. Some of your remarks are contradicting as well.

It's none of my business what people do behind closed doors or otherwise. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. I get really concerned when people that love each other, no matter what their color, creed, or sexual preference, are excluded from living like the so called "normal" people live. They may be gross and disgusting to you, but, it's not your business to critique them, and they are human beings just like you are.

This perfect world that you have in your sights may turn out to dissapoint you.

I also voted "no" on our Florida amendment. I'm very sad that it was voted in. We need to band together in this country for the good of all of us. Not segregate people even more.

Wonderfully said, my thoughts exactly.

[beeniesmom]

PCB, From your post I am understanding that you obviously didn't get to choose your husband. I am sorry about that and the fact that you think you can't be with the one you really love. Personally, I think that's a lie. I just hope you don't choose your kids' husband or wife as your parents did for you. Also, you say you don't descriminate.... Can you spell Hypocrite?"

[popcornbird]

PCB, From your post I am understanding that you obviously didn't get to choose your husband. I am sorry about that and the fact that you think you can't be with the one you really love. Personally, I think that's a lie. I just hope you don't choose your kids' husband or wife as your parents did for you. Also, you say you don't descriminate.... Can you spell Hypocrite?"

I'm really busy today, and do not have time to respond to the other posts right now, but I had to respond to this post...because this post is the joke of the century!!! GOOD LORD!!!

I chose my husband, love my husband with all my heart, would give my life for my husband, and much, much more. Everyone who knows me knows that, and everyone who knows my husband knows that he adores me the same. I truly can't get over how ridiculous AND infuriating this post of your's was, and can't for the life of me understand what you derived it from. Sheesh.

I am furious that you dare speak about my husband and parents in the way that you did. God has blessed me with the best husband, the best parents, and tremendous love in my life, and neither my parents, nor my husband has ever forced me into anything I didn't want, and I am confident that they never will.

The bottom line is the majority of California, the majority of America, and the majority of the world agree with me. Gay marriages are illegal in most of the country, and in most of the world, and ALL of the propositions regarding this issue this elections have passed by the vote of the people. Even IF you believe in the gay lifestyle, there IS NOTHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. They have 'rights' in the state. No one is seperating them or commanding them to live away from each other. Why do they want marriage? Is this all about money? Inheritance and insurance benefits? I cannot see any other reason why they want to call it marriage so badly because there is no other special benefit that calling it marriage will give them.

As for me, I do not believe anyone is born gay and I never will. I do believe some people are born as intersexuals with both sexual organs or neither. Anyone who is born with a condition has no control over the way they are. No one has control over whether they have white skin or black, whether they will be tall or short, whether they will have blue eyes or brown. Anyone who is 'born' in a certain way carries no blame for how they are born. I do not believe anyone is born gay, and most people don't. There is no scientific evidence that there is a gay gene. Even if there were, the population of gays would die out, because gays cannot reproduce, and thus cannot pass the genes on to the next generation. We're all born the same, pure, innocent, beautiful, male or female. When you go to visit a new mom at the hospital, there are two balloon options. "IT'S A BOY!!!" or "IT'S A GIRL!!!" There isn't any, "IT'S A GAY!!!"

Kids don't 'turn out' to be gay. I've known several girls in high school who claimed that they just realized they're gay. Fast forward a few years, they are all now with MALE partners. So much for being gay. They're just confused. If they were truly born gay and had to be with a gay partner, then none of that would've changed. We all have control over where we put our hands, where we put our feet, where we turn our gaze to, where we give a listening ear, and where we put our sexual organs. The sexual actions we do are a choice we make. No one MAKES us do it. It IS a choice, nothing more.

I do not believe I will have ultimate control over my kids. No one does. I will have the duty to nurture and guide them. When kids grow up, they do what they want, and parents hope that they will stick to the guidance they gave them. I hope for the same.

Funny how you guys turn to personal offenses instead of addressing the issue at hand. I thought Americans respect majority vote. Isn't that what democracy is all about?

[Kfamr]

I truly can't get over how ridiculous AND infuriating this post of your's was, and can't for the life of me understand what you derived it from.

Now you know how I feel when reading some of the things you come up with. EESH.

[-Pickle-]

How do you know the rest of the world agree with you!
Or the majority of california!
How many young gay and lesbian people do you think cant vote because of the age restriction- you appear to have forgotten them all.

Yes, what we do is a choice. who we're attracted to isnt.
you can be presented with blue and pink, and like the pink better. You can say you like the blue better, but truly, you still like the blue better.

Why is it any of your business who does what behind their bedroom door anyway PCB?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/3735668.stm

Pull your head out of your bible and research before you preach.

Ignorance is bliss hm.

[sparks19]

Well for one thing....

I will use my SIL as an example. If she were to end up in the hospital in a coma or in surgery or whatever... her partner would not be allowed to be with her unless a "real" family member was there to allow it. but since my SIL's parents live 9 hours away that isn't always possible for them to be right there right away. But becasue my SIL and her partner aren't married her partner could not be with her until another family member were able to get there. And while they have a child... her partner gets no say in anything that happens to my SIL just because they can't get married. To me that is horrible.

At the very least grant them civil unions.

[Daisy and Delilah]

I don't have time right now for a detailed post but I have to say this......it sounds like you live a sheltered life, at least thinking you have no gay people around you.
I can tell, without a doubt, that you don't really know any gay people too well do you? Because you seem to assume alot and choose not to become familiar with gays and become educated, I can put little or no faith in what you say at all.
Your arrogance and lack of knowledge is astounding.

As far as Americans respecting majority vote. Doesn't that imply that I have to go along with someone just because it's their opinion and not mine? Why bother to have a choice on the ballot?

Please open your mind and heart to what people here are telling you. You speak of gays like some sort of monsters that decide to be weird. That's not even close to the truth. I can only beg you to become educated before you write any more hateful comments.

You still haven't answered the question directly. What will you do if one of your children is gay and comes out to you? What will you do? Will you stop loving he/she when this happens?
How would you feel if you or one of your relatives were in the position of the SIL sparks speaks about?

I really can't believe the audacity of some of your remarks. Incorrect assumptions and general statements without backup. All the gays I know would give you every chance in the world if you needed one. Please do the same for them.

So much for a short post..........your original post listed many uncalled for remarks. You basically invited rebuttal so please don't wonder where it's coming from.

[JenBKR]

Pull your head out of your bible and research before you preach.

I just want to make it known that PCB is not Christian, she is Muslim, so she doesn't read the Bible.

I am a Christian and I support the gay/lesbian community. Jesus taught us to love our neighbors. I understand that you don't believe in God, and I respect that. But I do believe in Him, and I believe that He made you to be exactly who you are - and He loves you for it.

[Kfamr]

I am a Christian and I support the gay/lesbian community.

KUDOS to you for that!