My gramma had i think five miscarriages and my mom had 2! I have never been pg myself tho. The child you lost is probably just as real to you as if he/she had actually been born, it's true that Time heals all wounds. I disagree with the comments about not comparing your loss with the loss of a treasured pet. I have heard that for some people, the loss of a beloved pet can be just as painful as losing a human loved one, and I believe it.

It's a tragic thing that happened to you, and don't beat yourself up for feeling envious of other pg women!

Here are a couple of message boards for you :
Grief and Loss
TTC