Don't give up. Mourn the baby you lost, treasure the one you have, but realize that there is still plenty of time and hope for another baby in your life. Plant a little shrub in a corner of your yard if you can, to be a living memorial for baby.

Not to go into too much personal history, but my Mom was told after my big sister (I also have an older borther) that she wouldn't have any more children. Well, not only am I here, but I have a younger brother, too! (When we were being good, Ma would call us her "miracle babies!)

Do mourn, don't let anyone tell you you shouldn't, but remember there's hope. My prayers will be with you.