I'm so sorry for your loss. As others have mentioned, you really should try talking to your spouse. He's grieving too, although he might not show it.

While I would never even dare attempt to compare the loss of a pet over the loss of one's own child, I can say that it does get better with time. It must be so hard because you only have the "what might have been's" to think about.

I don't know how long ago you lost your baby, and I'm certainly not in anyway a medical person, but it would seem that your hormones are probably still wacky, which is causing everthing to seem that much worse.

I don't know of any, but I'm certain there are web sites in existence that have support groups for people in your situation.

I guess that finally I would say, your emotions are real, you have a right to cry. But if this goes on for too long, you might want to visit your doctor because you shouldn't suffer in silence. Do you belong to a church - is there a member of the clergy you could talk to?

Finally, and I know this sounds so trite at a time like this, you need to count your blessings. As much as it hurts to see your pregnant friends, celebrate their joy with them.

Well, I guess I've gone on long enough. We're all thinking about you here, so take care and keep in touch.

Julie