Kay that is a great tribute to your friend and her daughter. It is quite beautiful and I am not really into tattoos.

I don't know what to say to you about the rest. I miss Rob every day and you are right sometimes it seems even harder than it was in the beginning. I sometimes think maybe I will call him and get his perspective on something or just to talk to him but then realize I can't. The only think I can say is that if it didn't hurt, we didn't love them or didn't know them (meaning they were not in our lives) and that would be a terrible thing too. Hang in there - feel free to call if you need to - we can cry together. You will always have a part of Nicole through Mia. And while she will never replace Nicole, she will always be a reminder of what a special person Nicole was in your life.

I will be thinking of you and praying for you as well as Mia and her family.