In honor of my best friend... *pics* Update: Post 24

[Ginger's Mom]

Kay, the tattoo is absolutely perfect! I (again) have tears in my eyes. Especially seeing Mia's paci. My heart aches for this beautiful baby girl. She is very lucky to have you as a godmother so you can keep her mothers memory alive from a different point of view of Nicole than family.

I am sorry that Mia's mom died so young, and before Mia could really know her. Keep your memories strong for her, you can be a connection to her mother when she's older and asks about her mom. She is beautiful and I think the tattoo is lovely.

I agree very much with both of these posts. You have so much you can share with Mia about her Mother that others may not have seen. She is lucky to have someone like you to help her learn about who her Mother really was. That is probably the best tribute/gift you can give her. Sending out may virtual hugs and prayers for you today.

[ilovemypup]

I am so sorry about Mia's mom, Kay. But that is beautiful what you did...

[sparks19]

awww kay... that is a beautiful tattoo.

I've got goosebumps all over.

[caseysmom]

I am so sorry about your friend Kay your tribute to her is beautiful. In the olympics one of the volleyball players has a tattoo in memory of her mother, I think that is really touching she will always be a part of you.

[Bengalz]

Kay,

You are a wonderful person to, in spite of all your sadness, take the time to think only about your dear friend and her beautiful baby. Your tribute is very special.

The time you spend with Mia, loving her, taking care of her and protecting her is the best tribute of all Her Mom would have wanted that most of all.

Stay close to that precious little girl; she will always need you

Hugs, Betty

[cyber-sibes]

Very nice, Kay. Mia is a doll, such lovely photos of her holding your fingers.

[Cataholic]

Kay,
I have tears in my eyes for your friend, her precious daughter, her family and for you. That you can, and will, carry on, says so much about you. Be strong for Mia. Be strong for you.
Johanna

[jennielynn1970]

That's a lovely tribute for your friend.

Have they discovered what caused the cardiac arrest to happen? It's so tragic that she was so young and left behind a child.

Thoughts and prayers going out to her family, and also to you.

[Kfamr]

I added to it yesterday. A daisy, for Nicole's birthflower, and a rose for Mia's birthflower.

(sorry it's the only pic I have of it right now)


Wednesday marks 1 month. It seem it's not getting any easier, just harder. So many things remind me of her and bring me to tears.

I haven't deleted the numbers I have for her from my phone. I can't. I go through my contacts to see who I can call, go past her name, stop and think "oh, I'll call Nicole." Nope.


I wish so bad I could turn back and see her one last time. I miss her so damned much. This is horrible.

[Karen]

Write down things, incidents that remind you of her, and you can give it to Mia when she's older.

Beautiful job they did on the flowers, and it looks like one integrated design, not like it was done in two separate pieces, too.

[Daisy and Delilah]

It's beautiful, Kay. I've been meaning to PM you and see how you're doing. I wish there was something I could do for you. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

[Bengalz]

Your tattoo looks amazing. I'm so sorry this is such a difficult time for you. Your heart will heal and hopefully then you can enjoy your memories.

Hugs, Betty

[ramanth]

What a beautiful addition. *hugs*

[Casper]

Thats a really beautiful memorial, and I was going to say the exact thing as Karen did, about how well the two are integrated. I hope things get easier for you with time. I will continue to keep you and everyone involved in my thoughts.

I haven't deleted the numbers I have for her from my phone. I can't.

I still haven't deleted my dad's cell phone number out of my phone yet and it has been more than a year. I just can't bring myself to do it quite yet...


Huge (((((HUGS))))) headed your way.

[Scooter's Mom]

Thats a really beautiful memorial, and I was going to say the exact thing as Karen did, about how well the two are integrated. I hope things get easier for you with time. I will continue to keep you and everyone involved in my thoughts.




I still haven't deleted my dad's cell phone number out of my phone yet and it has been more than a year. I just can't bring myself to do it quite yet...


Huge (((((HUGS))))) headed your way.

It's almost 7 years since I lost my mom, and I still check her email so that the account doesn't vanish.

((Hugs)) to you.