But a few minutes later, my home phone rings and it is HIM screaming at me and calling me names that I won't say on here! He didn't like my attitude! I said that I had loaned the stools to her and that I would like to discuss this with her. He hung up.
That's when I would have moved out - immediately!!

I'm sorry you're having all these problems. I would be worrying about my physical safety right about now.