Sad Rant (maybe a little long)

[gini]

Just a thought - when you originally called about the air pump and she answered the phone - maybe she was in a situation where she would have loved to BLOW UP at the clients/people in her office. But being in a work situation she couldn't - so YOU got it!

I would just back off and let her be for a while - sounds like she has way too much on her plate and the air pump question just blew her off course.

[lizbud]

Just a thought - when you originally called about the air pump and she answered the phone - maybe she was in a situation where she would have loved to BLOW UP at the clients/people in her office. But being in a work situation she couldn't - so YOU got it!

I would just back off and let her be for a while - sounds like she has way too much on her plate and the air pump question just blew her off course.

Gini,

That was my thinking too. Believe me, I've been there, done that. It's
never pleasant & I feel bad afterwards , but, it does happen.

[moosmom]

I haven't heard a word from her since Saturday.

[gini]

I know you feel horrible - but let it be for now - she will come around!!

And YOU have apologized enough!

[shais_mom]

I'd have to stand on the side of your daughter and others that said she OVER(really)OVERreacted.
no you shouldn't apologize anymore.
if she calls you in a couple weeks and acts like things are peachy - tell her that SHE hurt YOU but move on.
You don't deserve to be treated like that especially by a "friend".

lick your wounds and curl with a kitty.

[moosmom]

I'm through apologizing. I don't grovel for anyone. I know she's got her issues with 2 kids to get ready for school and worrying about her Dad, but I've got my problems too. She wants to be coddled, let her husband do it. Stick a fork in me baby, cuz I'm done!!!