I love the thought of him 'dashing up the rainbow'! Thank you.
And thank you to everyone who posted such beautiful and caring messages about Tiger as well as prayers for us. They have helped me so much in this time of sadness and now healing. They have also helped my husband too. I read him every single post and when I turned around to see if he was paying attention, I saw that he was crying. He's a tough guy so this was very touching and I know that this difficult time we are going through has been made alot easier for both of us because of all of you. And because we are able to better cope with this situation with the Pet Talk support, our remaining pets will benefit and it is a wonderful 'ripple' effect that reaches far and wide.
In fact this whole past year has been filled with hope and new energy because of the suggestions and support we both received here. I've never participated in a forum like this before and I'm so grateful that I found Pet Talk and all of the caring people who contribute here from all over the world.
It's hard to believe that Tiger has already been gone for almost 6 days. I have noticed that our other cats have been looking 'up' alot. I don't see anything that they could be focusing on so I've decided that it is Tiger and he has been visiting us.
I requested that Tiger be cremated and I expect to have his ashes back in a few weeks. I will sprinkle his ashes along with Charlie's around our Chestnut tree once I know for sure that we are not moving. Our listing expired yesterday with our realtor and the offer we had fell through. We had one last realtor come through here about an hour ago with a family and that is it. Providing they don't put an offer in, we are staying and I couldn't be happier. Our animals love it here and it is very well set up for them with all of their outdoor enclosures and many windows to enjoy views of the pond and listen to the owls and frogs and watch the passing deer. We are going to get one big mortgage to pay off our current 1st and 2nd and do our best to hang in there for as long as we can.
Though it isn't time right now, my husband has agreed to adopt another cat into our family. He said to me the other day "We are a 9 cat family! It feels strange with only 8!!" We both started laughing because we know how crazy that sounds. lol
He still misses Charlie so much as they were very close, so he is hoping that I will find a short haired orange and white fellow that needs rescuing. I'm going to start looking in a month or two at the shelters within a few hour range and hope to find our newest family member. The only kitten we've ever adopted was Stinky and that was over 7 years ago. I prefer to adopt adult cats that tend to get overlooked but part of me is wondering if a kitten is just what this family needs. I'm pretty sure that all of our cats will 'accept' a kitten and I could rotate him among the two groups and Sneakers and everyone could have someone new to love. My main concern is filling the hole in Jimmy's heart because he has suffered the most after losing his best friend in the world, Charlie and then his second best friend, Tiger. Paddy is definitely Jimmy's new wing man and they are fond of each other and sometimes groom each other but Paddy is sometimes independent and can spend hours alone on the deck and seems quite happy doing this. Jimmy wanders around crying because he is feeling lonely. He has also been waking us up at night with his crying because I'm guessing he is feeling sad and lonely. I get up and give him reassuring hugs which allows him to fall back asleep but I think having another four footed friend would really help him along. What Jimmy needs is a cat that is very snuggly and playful.
I pray that both Charlie and Tiger will help me in this search to find a cat that will bring healing to us all.
Thank you again everyone for taking the time to think about Tiger and our family. I cried so many tears when I read your posts and it made me feel very blessed.
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